Moxie Pest Control Of Arizona By: moxie pest | - Moxie Pest Control AZ offers complete professional services for pest problems in Arizona. Our mission is to increase the standard of living and the quality of life for clients, employees and the community. We do this through safe and dependable pest control service that is effective and protects what is most valuable to youyour family and your home.
Moxie Pest Control AZs services start with the inspection of a licensed technician who will fully inspect your property for pest problem ... Tags:pest control Tempe, pest control service Tempe
What Wealth Won't Protect From And What Will By: Valery Satterwhite | - Wealth can give you a feeling of outer security. It won't, however, guarantee inner security. Know any insecure wealthy people? They're suffering from "affluenza". The truth is that real security is an inside job.
Money doesn't protect you from heartbreak. Know any wealthy people who've had their heart broken? Money doesn't protect you from worry. Know any wealthy people who worry? Money doesn't necessarily protect you from financial ruin. Know anyone who's lost their fortune?
Things Wealth Doesn't Protect You From By: Valery Satterwhite | - We think money buys freedom, security and protection. While it can by solutions to everyday problems it doesn't protect us from the stuff that keeps us up at night...the worries and insecurities that creep into our good night. Wealth can give you a feeling of outer security. It won't, however, guarantee inner security. Know any insecure wealthy people? Real security is an inside job.
Four Signs That Indicate You Are Trapped In Wealth By: Valery Satterwhite | - Many wealthy people, however they come into wealth, enjoy happy satisfying lives. Others do not. It's not unusual for authenticity and autonomy to be traded in for portfolio security. It's an empty, lonely, place from which to live. Its a life lived trapped in a gilded cage.
Stuck? Wherever You Go, There You Are By: Valery Satterwhite | - Who you are being creates your current experience and plants the seeds that will become your future. It doesn't matter what you have or what you are doing, its how how you are being that determines your experiences. Two people can be at the same place at the same time and have two very different experiences? Why?
The Ultimate Luxury Experience By: Valery Satterwhite | - There is much talk and concern over the state of the economy. In private and business discussions as well as the media, we hear the theme of stress and distress due to the current economic issues. Yet when I look around me I see abundance. I see people mustering up their Moxie, getting creative, firing on all cylinders as they thrive instead of merely survive no matter what.
What's It All About, Alfie? By: Valery Satterwhite | - The movie, Alfie, in which the title role was played by Michael Cain in 1966 and again in 2004 by Jude Law told the story of a joy riding womanizing man coming to terms with the meaning of life. "What have I got? Really? Some money in my pocket, some nice threads, fancy car at my disposal, and I'm single. Yeah... unattached, free as a bird... I don't depend on nobody and nobody depends on me... My life's my own. But I don't have peace of mind. And if you don't have that, you've got nothing. So ... Tags:Alfie movie, Jude Law, meaning of life, life purpose, Michael Caine, inner peace, stress management, feel empty inside, infidelity, meaningless sex
Rise Above The "first Wives Club" By: Valery Satterwhite | - You married until death do you part. You worked hard to build a life together, raise the kids and establish your nest egg for the future. And then, seemingly out of nowhere, you're knocked on your ass by a divorce.
After spending some time in a numb haze you begin to get up - not an easy thing to do in a painful emotional wave.
How To Win The Battle Against Excessive Behaviors By: doctormox | - The very nature of a holiday . . . is excess; the holiday mood is brought about by the release of what is otherwise forbidden . . .Sigmund Freud
This is the season for excessive behavior
Holiday celebrations at the years end entice us to eat more food; spend more money, and drink more alcohol than is prudent for our health. The period of indulgence is followed by New Years resolutions, where we fanticize, at least for a few days, that we will never do it again.
Invalidation tends to trip some switch in our souls that lead us to reach into our bag of nastiness. Have you ever blamed, cursed, cried, shouted, or did something that you understood would create pain for the person who has invalidated you? Just as skunks are equipped to inflict their predators with spray, humans are equipped to inflict emotional predators with rage. We all came to life equipped with rage. Rage, however, begets rage between ... Tags:moxie mental health, katrina miller, emotion, moxie health,
Recovery And Mental Health By: doctormox | - Have you ever awakened in a terror, only to realize that the horrifying fate you had just witnessed was only a nightmare? How would life be different if nightmares were real? Perhaps there would be no more tomorrows, where you could continue to live with those you love and continue to do what you love doing. Zapyou awaken, and life and its beauty come back to you.
Which of these survival strategies works the best for you?
1. Try to intimidate them so theyll leave you alone.
2. Try to defend yourself.
3. Take the moral high ground and insist you are right and the explosive person is wrong.
If you tend to do any of these behaviors when another person is exploding emotionally, you are likely to make a bad situation very bad. A person who is ex ... Tags:moxie mental health, moxie health,
Promote Competency By Using Everyday Experience By: doctormox | - A year -old child does not care how many times he or she falls down when it comes to learning to walk. Most parents get as big a kick out of the persistent falling and standing up again as they do the big moment and the first unsteady step is taken. And before long, that child is running.
As we get a little older, ego begins to sabotage our learning processes. We get hung up on presenting a good image at any cost, and we do not want others to be aware of our capacity to fall down ... Tags:moxie mental health, moxie health, self efficacy,
3 Tips To Disconnect From Divorce Drama And Pain By: Gail Leino | - You're angry. Royally pissed off some, or most, of the time. You were not supposed to be divorced. Especially not at this age - after everything you've been through.
You're knocked on your ass, want to get up and move on but can't. Why? Because you've fallen into the deep divorce drama ditch. And its hard to climb out - especially when you unknowingly keep digging deeper and deeper.
How To Be Secure In Your Insecurity By: Valery Satterwhite | - If you knew me 15 years ago you wouldn't recognize the author, coach and public speaker - with a lot of Moxie - I am today.
I was once the shiest person I knew. As a child, I dreaded the first day of school because I usually had to stand up and tell everyone what I did on my summer vacation. To stand up, speak and have everyone look at me scared the shit out of me.
Have you tried any of these approaches?
1. Tell them that their behavior makes you miserable.
2. Give them advice on how to change.
3. Talk to other people about how bad things are.
Research on the treatment of alcohol and/or drug addiction suggests that any of the approaches listed above are likely to prolong, rather than relieve your misery. People react strongly when th ... Tags:effective conversation, moxie support, moxie mental health,
2011: 3 Steps To Be Accountable To Your Excellence By: Valery Satterwhite | - Truth is, you already are accountable. You are the ultimate creator of all that you do, all that you experience. While you may not have created certain events in your life, you are the generative force behind what you have that experience mean for you. Have to allowed yourself to become the victim of circumstance? Or have you spent your moments examining, learning and rising above?
Dictionary.com defines kith as acquaintances, friends, neighbors, or the like; persons living in the same general locality and forming a more or less cohesive group.
Your need your kith and your kith need you. Human beings necessarily depend on each other. As John Donne said, No man is an island.
Lost? No Direction Home? A 5-step Turnaround By: Valery Satterwhite | - Noticing an energy drain I popped in a Rolling Stones CD and hit play. It's only rock and roll but I like it. Somehow the music gets under my skin and catapults me into movement and creativity.
One of my favorite cuts is "Like A Rolling Stone" written by Bob Dylan. The Stones version of it rocks. It's a get-up-off-your-ass-and-dance vibe that permeates my very soul from the inside out.
How To Identify Character Strengths And Values By: doctormox | - "Life DOESNT work, until you DO." Latesha summarized a valuable lesson she had learned from a recent encounter with adversity.
We laughed together, struck by Lateshas ability to communicate wisdom so simply and elegantly.
"Do you know what you just did?" I asked her. "You demonstrated, once again, that you have the gift of perspective. You just taught me something about life."
Latesha looked at me pensively. It sounded like a set-up for both of us. The two months she had spent in bed had something to do with her attending to the signals coming from the emotional, as opposed to the rational part of her brain. It also had to do with beliefs she had about her situation and life. But the fact is that our unders ... Tags:moxie mental health, emotion, brain, feelings, recovery, limbic system, how to control emotions, limbic system, over reaction, thinking skills
Create Success By Choosing Thoughts That Empower By: doctormox | - The real thoughts, Latesha, are the thoughts that you choose. I wanted Latesha to understand that the thoughts she chooses to nurture will determine her destiny in life.
For instance, I continued, lets look at that thought, people will see me have a panic attack. If that happened, what would that mean about you?
It would mean that people will think Im crazy. Latesha replied.
Identifying Alcohol And Other Drug Dependency By: doctormox | - Jimmy quit drinking back in 1999. He had been a heavy drinker since late adolescencebefore he married his high school sweetheart. Rita had fallen in love with his happy-drunk cheerfulness. He liked beer; she liked Chardonnay. After five years of marriage, however, Rita decided she wanted to be a grown-up. She quit, but Jimmy kept it up. Her perspective about Jimmys drunken cheerfulness changed as wellshe now saw it as immature and irresponsible.
How To Survive The Blame Game From Addiction And Family Members By: doctormox | - Rita was married to Jimmy for twenty years before she finally got it. She had begged Jimmy to stop drinking many times, but words did not change his behaviors. Words such as, if you want a relationship with me, you will have to stop drinking, or If you keep drinking, you will die young appeared to be a waste of breath. He seemed to crave alcohol as much as hungry people crave food.
What To Do When Someone Feels You Have Hurt Them By: doctormox | - Moxie mental health makes people stronger than strong. How is that possible? Consider this Aesop fable comparing the reed with the oak tree.
An oak and a reed were arguing about their strength. When a strong wind came up, the reed avoided being uprooted by bending and leaning with the gusts of wind. But the oak stood firm and was torn up by the roots.
Fixated On Fixing Isn't A Fix By: Valery Satterwhite | - You get that the common denominator in all your unwanted experiences is you. You're beginning to understand you have influence over the outcomes you achieve. You realize that, at least sometimes, you're the one standing in your own way.
Now you're fixated on fixing your problem. You're fixated on fixing You.
Knocked On Your Tushie? How To Get A Present While You're On The Floor By: Valery Satterwhite | - Dad was 94 and in very poor health. He was bedridden, full of bed sores, could hardly hear or see. Knowing him to be a man who played - both brilliantly and very badly - on a larger than life stage, it pained me to know that this sorry state was now his world.
The Crack Addict Secret To Success By: Valery Satterwhite | - The other day a friend asked me how I help people. I told her, very simply, that I teach people how to crack their world open to reveal thrilling new possibilities and opportunities that they couldn't see before. She laughed and said I encourage people to become Crack Addicts.
HA!
In that context, I do. In fact, it's now replaced Starbucks lattes as my preferred drug of choice.
The Voice Of Intuition Or The Inner Critic? How To Tell The Difference By: Valery Satterwhite | - I've had an interesting week. Clearly the Universe is offering me reminder after reminder to acknowledge, honor and trust my Intuition over all other voices - well-meaning advice of others including my own Inner Critic.
Two examples:
#1
I received a very proper looking legal document in the mail indicating I had to pay $38 for some state fee as a sole proprietor. I was about to write the check when I felt a strong inner sensation that told me to stop and ... Tags:intuition, inner critic, anxiety, stress, moxie, coach, depression, emotions, inner wealth, fulfillment
We come into this world full of wonder, amazement and an audaciously authentic ability to laugh out loud at whatever tickles our funny bone. To our young minds - free of attached meanings, assumptions and suppositions - the world is a delightfully cacophony of silliness. Just looking at Mom or Dad evokes a sense of pure joy and well being.
Always Tired? What It Takes To Shift Inner Gears By: Valery Satterwhite | - Too pooped to put one more foot in front of the other? Is your favorite part of the day the moment you get to dive into bed and shut the world off for a few hours? Does the mere thought of the days ahead suck the life energy right out of you?
I know how that feels. I've been there -- for years. I complained I was tired all the time. People said I needed to eat more. Tried that, still felt the abyss of an energy void.
Unfulfilled? 3 Steps To Discover And Get What You Really Want By: Valery Satterwhite | - People look at you and think youve got it all together. You have a life that many envy, a career, relationship and the freedom to live an enjoyable life or at least two out of the three. On the outside youve put on a great show. On the inside, not so much.
Behind the mask, you feel empty and alone. You have a nagging sense that something is missing. Youre seeking fulfillment in all the wrong places: excessive shopping, yet another cosmetic surgical nip and tuck, over-eating, or ... Tags:unfulfilled, moxie, therapy, coach, depressed, frustrated, purpose, passion, authenticity
The Secret To A Spectacular Life - As If! By: Valery Satterwhite | - One of the phrases that helped define the 1990s is "As if!" Immortalized by actor Alicia Silverstone's character, Cher Horowitz, in the movie "Clueless", the term connotes a derisive assertion that whatever is being talked about is impossible or very unlikely. It is another way of saying:
"As if that were remotely possible?" "Doesn't she wish!" "Yeah, right!" "Not!"
Are You A Nurse Jackie In Jimmy Choos? By: Valery Satterwhite | - Drug abuse is not a new phenomenon. Nor is it limited to those wallowing in their own swill on ne'er do well row. In increasing numbers, drug addiction - particularly prescription drug dependance - is found lurking behind the velvet curtains in the homes of the smart, successful and affluent.
The Un-recipe For Success And A Tip From Michael Jackson By: Valery Satterwhite | - I was busy in the kitchen this weekend. I had a yen to cook something that would slow-cook in a crock pot. I love how a house smells when there is something yummy getting ready for my tummy.
A friend called. She was complaining about her exhausting weekend. Relatives were staying with her. Each had an opinion of how she should live her life. Her career, potential relationships and even what she wore was picked apart and critiqued. Well-meaning family members had different ideas of ... Tags:michael jackson, therapy, depression, expectations, confidence, courage, confidential, self-sabotage, moxie
Actor Joe Pantoliano Transforms His Depression To Empower Others By: Valery Satterwhite | - "I am now the most miserable man living. Whether I shall ever be better I cannot tell; I awfully forebode I shall not. To remain as I am is impossible; I must die or be better." - Abraham Lincoln
American film and television actor Joe Pantoliano once identified strongly with Lincoln's sad statement. Its hard for many of us to imagine that Pantoliano, a man who has achieved fame, wealth and adoring accolades could possible feel such a sense of quiet desperation. On the outside his li ... Tags:depression, Joe Pantoliano, moxie, exclusive, confidential, confidence, courage, soldiers, anxiety, stress
Grow Up. Move Out. Move On. By: Valery Satterwhite | - I often ask successful people what was the best piece of advice they ever got from a parent. What words of wisdom carried them forward as they achieved their personal and professional goals? Responses such as "Don't take anything for granted", "You have to work hard and struggle for success" and "It takes money to make money" are among the most common. I posed this same question to Wendy, a woman I met at a luncheon not long ago. Her quick response was "Grow up. Move out." That was her Dad's ma ... Tags:Moxie, therapy, confidence, courage, Valery Satterwhite, success, depression, self-esteem, fear, frustrated
What Is Your Inborn Operating System And Killer App? By: Valery Satterwhite | - At birth you had some killer apps, including a personal GPS system. It tells you whether or not the turn, the choice, you are about to make will get you to where you want to go. It shines light upon the best road to take to achieve your dreams. When you use this nifty little innate app you steer clear of a life lived unfulfilled with a quiet desperation.
How To Wake Up The Dead Inside By: Valery Satterwhite | - Exhausted, spent, too tired to even think, some people live their lives robotically running a treadmill existence as if dead inside. They've become numb to the endless repetition of energy sucking experiences. In and out of ill fated relationships and jobs, these people always Find Excuses And Reasons (FEAR) why this or that didn't work out -- again.
If you're reading this article you may be a shopping addict. There's a world of difference between someone who shops for necessities (even luxuries) or social enjoyment and the person who shops to deaden emotional pain. Which one are you?
Like a drug addict you use shopping to get you high, make you feel better about your self or circumstance if you:
How To Tap Into Your Intuitive Moxie Power By: Valery Satterwhite | - Everyone was born with the magical power of intuition. Intuition is a clear flow of wisdom available to you. It is centered in your authenticity, true purpose and highest path.
Following your intuition will help you avoid or rise above challenge and struggle as you create your life experience. Why ignore or throw intuition, that gut instinct, down the proverbial garbage disposal? What makes a person go against their instincts in favor of another choice that never results in a goo ... Tags:anxiety, stress, moxie, coach, fear, wealth, success, procrastination, intuition, intuitive
2 Steps To Empowering Imagination To Create Your Extraordinary Life By: Valery Satterwhite | - Have you ever met anyone who wanted to have a life of luxury but couldn't really see themselves in that life? Have you ever read a story about a person who longed for a loving soul mate but had difficulty picturing herself in a happy marriage? Have you heard about anyone say they wanted to have a successful business but couldn't imagine being self-employed? Truth is, our ability to create the future we dream of is limited by what we can see for ourselves.
3 Lessons To Achieve Authentic Greatness From Steve Jobs By: Valery Satterwhite | - When I'm in the mood for a little inspiration I seek out extraordinary people speak their truth from the heart. These are the thought leaders who fully express their Moxie - the confident courage to achieve authentic greatness with unrelenting drive and passion. In this abundant content driven Web 2.0 age it only takes a few clicks of a mouse to bear witness to their words of wisdom.
Moxie Up! The Secret To Extraordinary Success By: Valery Satterwhite | - What do those who achieve extraordinary success Richard Branson, Oprah Winfrey, Steve Jobs, J.K. Rowling, Bette Midler, Mary Kay Ash, Angelina Jolie, Howard Stern, Danica Patrick, Ellen DeGeneres and Aunti Mame have in common?
Moxie
Those who rise above mere success to create an extraordinary life have the guts, fortitude, the confident courage to achieve authentic greatness with unrelenting drive and passion.
These dolls are marketed as dolls that help empower girls to do and be whatever they want. And you can't argue with that! They also promote fashion and makeup, and there are some who do argue with that.
