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Articles about Neil Strauss (0-50 of 86)
- Avoid Mistakes If You Want A Drama-free Sensual Life
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I've been all over the globe and I've met lots of different types of women, as you can imagine.
Probably it's not surprise to you to know that I look for the common things in women from every city and even country I go to.
If you look at the cities of the U.S. - L.A., Phoenix, San Francisco, Chicago, Atlanta, Boston, Miami, New York...they all have their own flavor.
But I've also been around the globe.
I've been to Europe and Asia.
...
Tags: meet girls, Pickup Artist, dating, dating tips, dating tips for men, neil strauss, david deangelo
- Maintaining A Woman's Harem
By: Vin DiCarlo | - It's every man's dream to have three or four girlfriends. I'm not talking about actual GIRLFRIENDS, where you have to see them all the time.
I'm talking about women that are "friends."
What I mean is that there is a connection - there is a level of trust and affection for one another.
And obviously you are sensually intimate. Both needs are fulfilled.
The problem arises from our social conditioning. Society - through the media, friends, EVERYON ...
Tags: dating, dating tips, dating tips for men, pickup artist, pickup woman, neil strauss
- How To Deal With A Woman Who's Crazy (but Hot)
By: Vin DiCarlo | - Women are crazy.
Let me tell you what happened.
So I met this women as I was walking down a busy street in Manhattan (NYC for those not from the States).
She was stunning. Tall, dark wavy hair, slightly slanted dark eyes, round breasts, and a walk that made you stop and look.
So obviously I had to meet her.
Ok - fast forward: street opener, M.E. convo, # close, phone call, date...
First date. Everything goes great - we ...
Tags: single women, get girlfriend, dating tips, dating tips for men, neil strauss, mystery method, david deangelo, dating
- How To Use A Woman's Games To Your Advantage
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I want to point out something to you.
For guys like us spend money, time, and above all, EFFORT, making ourselves into better men.
We deserve respect.
We deserve success.
We deserve the best.
Because think about this: who thinks this much about being a better person?
Barely anyone.
It's true. The most time most women put into being better people is the two hours they spend putting on makeup before hitting ...
Tags: dating, dating tips for men, dating tips, david deangelo, neil strauss, mystery method, pickup artist, pick-up artist
- Pickup Artist Player Phase
By: Vin DiCarlo | - Have you been stuck in the player phase?
Every aspiring pickup artist goes through it.
The player phase.
Women are calling you a player every time you try to pick them up. They ask you things like, "how many girls have you talked to tonight?"
Or, "You seem like a player. Do you get with a lot of girls?"
And of course, the answer is probably yes.
But you try do deny it (at worst), or sarcastically agree (better). But th ...
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- Consequence Switches
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I don't mingle to guys trying too hard to "say the right thing" to women.
This kind of mindset will only hold you back, and will clog your mind from being creative and in the moment.
At the same time, you don't want to say the WRONG THING.
This has screwed me over many times. I was getting along great with a woman, she was all over me, and I could see messed up sheets in our near future.
And then I made some bone-head move and I could see the a ...
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- What Is Pro Pua Conversation Like?
By: Vin DiCarlo | - When I teach guys, I'm always torn about how much to tell them.
Not about actual tools they need to be master pickup artists. But about myself.
If I were to go into detail about my life, it would probably look like bragging.
And it might be discouraging. I recall telling students stories of my exploits, and they actually got upset because they felt that my reality was too far away from theirs - that they couldn't get to my level in their lifetime.
Tags: body language, dating tips, dating tips for men, dating, pick-up artist, pickup artist, neil strauss
- Attraction Doesn't Always Mean Sleeping With Her
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I never stop learning in this game.
One thing I've realized in the past couple years is how true the following statement is:
A woman can be attracted to you, but still decide not to sleep with you.
Makes no sense!
I mean, as a guy, if I think a woman is hot, I want to sleep with her, without question.
Actually, I have to admit, that's not always true.
I've said this before, and it may sound weird, but my reality nowada ...
Tags: dating tips, dating tips for men, neil strauss, david deangelo, mystery method, october man sequence, pick-up artist, pickup artist
- Dating Tips For Guy
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I had recently met a woman and the other we had a lunch. Then she ask me everything about my business.
When she first asked me what I do for a living, I told her straight up. She seemed mildly impressed, but didn't give the "wow" reaction I usually get.
But as she asked me more questions, I realized that she didn't understand at first. The more she knew, the more impressed, and intrigued she became.
One question she asked, that I get a lot, is "what kinds o ...
Tags: David DeAngelo, Dating Tips for Guys, pick-up artist, neil strauss, seductions, dating tips for men
- Preparation For Approaching Women
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I talk a lot about the turning point in my pickup ability where I dropped all pre-scripted material.
I was going out, night after night, saying prescripted stories and routines. I even had jokes prepared.
And I'd just go out and say all this stuff, one thing after the other, without paying attention to anything else.
Needless to say, I was quite entertaining, but definitely not attractive. I never got more than a laugh.
So this is one end of th ...
Tags: pick up artist, october man sequence, Neil Strauss, david deangelo, Dating Tips, pick up lines
- What's Really In Your Control?
By: Vin DiCarlo | - As pickup artists, we used to think that we can have every girls in the world, if we can get "good" enough skills.
Unfortunately, that's just not how it works.
As you know, there are things beyond your control.
Women are just as complex and dynamic as you are. And probably less predictable.
I have dated so many women that at first seemed very flakey. I took it personally.
I remember getting MAD when women wouldn't return my phone c ...
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- Create A Women That Caters You
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I've never been one to sit on my laurels. Even though I have amazing women in my life, who live to serve and please me, I never stop learning.
Over the years, I've tried and failed at a lot of different techniques with women.
And of course, I've succeeded.
But I learn from both.
From my failures I know what NOT to do, and when I do something that gets great results, I don't just accept it and forget it.
I must ANALYZE WHY it happen ...
Tags: pickup artist, pick-up artist, dating, dating tips, dating tips for men, neil strauss, david de angelo, mystery method, october man sequence, get a girlfirend
- The Correct Mindset For Fast, Easy Pickups
By: Vin DiCarlo | - In all of my best pickups, there was one common denominator.
Well, two. The first led to the second.
First, in the interaction, there was the sense that the girl was trying to impress me.
Now if this is something you're unaccustomed to, let me paint a picture.
First, think about all the times you've talked to women...
You were probably preoccupied with what she thought of you.
You were probably busy trying to say the r ...
Tags: Pick Up Artist, Pickup Artist, david deangelo, mystery method, dating tips, dating tips for men, neil strauss, october man sequence
- Can A Woman Fall In Love With You?
By: Vin DiCarlo | - Back when I was in college, there was this girl...we'll call her Julie.
I met her in one of my classes, and we'd always sit together and joke about the professor and write doodles on each other's notes.
As I got to know her, I could feel myself falling for her. She was beautiful, smart and funny.
That was the only class I recall looking forward to all throughout my undergraduate years.
I would actually take a shower and dress really nice before ...
Tags: dating, dating tips, dating tips for, get a girlfriend, how to get girlfriend, neil strauss, david deangelo, mystery method
- If You Don't Flip The Script, Someone Else Will
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I've tried a method that gives me a complete strategy for "flipping the script" with women I date.
This is what I mean by "flipping the script": in most relationships, hell in damn near every interaction between men and women, women have all the power.
But it's because men give it to them.
Typically, it's the man working to chase the woman. This frames her as the prize, and lowers the man's value, relative to the women.
The woman may talk to t ...
Tags: dating tips, dating tips for men, dating, neil strauss, david deangelo, mystery method, october man sequence, pickup artist. pick-up artist
- Why Do Some Guys Have The "gift Of Gab"?
By: Vin DiCarlo | - You and I are weird guys. That's the reality.
Well maybe weird isn't the right term...
Sure, other people might call us weird, but I'd say we are EXCEPTIONAL.
First of all, it takes a certain kind of man to admit that he can improve with women.
Most guys are mentally lazy. They'd rather play video games and looking at hot images, and then hope to get lucky on Saturday night.
Sure, that's real easy when you've been hooking up with g ...
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- Why Girls Don't Call You Back?
By: Vin DiCarlo | - There's nothing more frustrating than spending an hour spitting game to a girl at the bar, only to call her the next day and not get an answer.
In the era of cell-phones, it's understandable if you don't get an answer the first time you call. But there you are, waiting for her to call you back.
And it never happens.
Or let's say you text her. And she doesn't text back.
That's actually worse! She OBVIOUSLY has text messaging, and SEES YOUR TEXT. ...
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- Keeping The Conversation Rolling
By: Vin DiCarlo | - There was this crazy obsession for conversational "routines" when I first discovered the pickup community.
At the time it SEEMED like a novel idea.
Except it wasn't.
If you're life is not in order, you will have a hard time "saying the right thing" to women.
Ask yourself - what's the most clichéd aspect of picking up women?
LINES.
"So, uh, you come here often?"
Routines are just more complicated LINES ...
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- What Makes A Woman Want To See You Again
By: Vin DiCarlo | - The problem with a woman flaking out on you is that you seldom get an explanation.
You could FIX IT, If only you knew what you did WRONG. But women aren't very helpful in this arena, as I've learned the hard way.
That's why I had to learn for myself. I asked questions, got every piece of material I could buy.
And of course there's trial and error. Which is no fun until you start having success, let me tell you.
Finding the right path is tough. ...
Tags: Pick Up Artist, Pickup Artist, dating, dating Tips, dating tips for women, neil strauss, david deangelo, mystery method
- The Avoidance Of Women From You
By: Vin DiCarlo | - There are really two ways to amplify any potential flake outs.
(Flake-outs, or "flaking," if you're new to my stuff, means that you got a woman's phone number, but she's either not calling you back, or being difficult about going on a date with you.)
The first way to minimize the chances of a woman flaking on you is by having a GREAT first interaction. If there's chemistry, odds are, she will be very motivated to answer the phone, or call/text you back.
The ...
Tags: Getting Girlfriend, Body Language, dating, dating tips for men, neil strauss, dating tips
- What Makes A "good" Conversation With A Woman?
By: Vin DiCarlo | - The question seems laughable at this point.
"What do I say to girls?"
As if there was a magical set of words, or a pattern of speech, that could make a woman like you.
And yet, that's the underlying belief isn't it?
Think about how you approach conversation with women. You are looking for the right words to say.
But look closer...what's missing?
The "right words to say"...to get WHAT?
Let's finish the sent ...
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- Your Memories Deceive You
By: Vin DiCarlo | - All of us had our own favorite childhood memories. We also have memories that we'd actually rather not recall.
I recall going to the beach with my family when I was a kid. I remember the first time I walked around New York City as a teenager. I remember the girl that had my first kiss.
I also remember being teased, bullied, and rejected all through school (and outside of school).
The funny thing is, memory is not all that accurate. Things change in our mind ...
Tags: mystery method, get a girlfriend, dating tips, dating tips for men, dating, david deangelo, neil strauss
- Social Brainwashing And Terrorism
By: Vin DiCarlo | - The news is crazy these days. It seems like I'm constantly bombarded with news about some terrorist attack, or a terrorist who was apprehended, or soldiers killed trying to stop terrorists.
It's scary as hell. All this talk of terrorism has everyone living with at least a small cloud over their heads.
I remember watching the 9/11 attacks and trembling as I watched in fear - and confusion.
At first I assumed it was just some kind of an accident. But then whe ...
Tags: pickup artist, october man sequence, Neil Strauss, david deangelo, Dating Tips, Dating Tips for Men, meet girls, pick up women
- Beware Of Facebook!
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I'm just like you. I made a Facebook profile.
Actually I've had one for awhile now. There's things I like about it.
It's easy to stay in touch with people. I've got friends from high school, acquaintances, old flings, old friends, business associates, you name it.
And being the smart ass that I am, I like to send offensive, and funny (but mostly offensive) comments to people's pictures and profile walls.
I don't spend much time on it - in fact, ...
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- Why The Economy Will Help Your Game?
By: Vin DiCarlo | - The economy, the economy, why will it help?
Everyone's complaining about the economy.
But I have to say, I really can't relate.
I guess I have to deal with inflation, gas prices, and all of my investments taking a hit.
But one area I'm not struggling with is, you guessed it! WOMEN.
My buddy, who is not good with women, and refuses to actually take any advice I give him, was complaining the other day.
"I got my hours cu ...
Tags: dating women, Dating Tips for Men, Neil Strauss, david deangelo, Dating Tips, Dating Tips for Guys, attract women
- Interesting Things About Being Generous To Women
By: Vin DiCarlo | - I always think that most psychology theories are useless and misleading. And I'm absolutely a sucker for psychology articles.
There's a term for this - "pop psychology" or "junk psychology."
But there's something to learn in everything you encounter.
So I am always curious to read about new findings, especially ones related to pickup.
I recently read an article that looked at how generous guys are when in a romantic state of mind. Basically, it ...
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- The Hindrance To Your Success With Women
By: Vin DiCarlo | - Are you stuck in a feedback loop?
Understood/Affinity - I'm a neurotic nerdy loser like you. It can be really tough starting from nothing.
What I mean is, if you haven't been very successful with women in the past, it's really hard getting the ball rolling.
I've come to realize that a big part of success is momentum. It's like the snowball effect.
Success often is built on success, importantly when it comes to beliefs.
I used to ha ...
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- The Truth Behind Some Dating Tips For Guys
By: Julian Foxx | - There is something that's been bothering me for a long time now...
And that is this notion that the best pickup artists don't get rejected.
I've even heard of a '5 for 5' concept which claims that 'a true master pickup artist can sleep with 5 out 5 girls he approaches. And if you are not a Master PUA than you are an AFC. There is no middle ground.'
That might be the single biggest chunk of bullshit I've ever heard in my life.
Seriously...
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- The 'myspace Is Yourspace' Dating Technique From Julian Foxx
By: Julian Foxx | - I'll be blunt.
This trick is plain ol' dirty.
And at first there was no way I was going to include it in my newsletter, but when I saw how ridiculously effective it was...
I changed my mind.
I can only hope that Zoe, Erica, and Natalia never read this email.
I call this technique:
'Yourspace IS Myspace'
And if you haven't already figured it out, you need to have myspace, facebook, or some kind of onli ...
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- Dating Tips For Guys: Effective Ways To Succeed With Hot Girls
By: Julian Foxx | - It wasn't until my early twenties that I started to have real success with women.
But even then, I was aware of a disturbing pattern;
My success ratio with the girls I REALLY liked, who were typically the 9's and 10's, was much lower than with the girls I just KINDA liked...
Now, for a long time my intuition told me that this was because the most attractive girls were just naturally more selective. It makes sense when you think about it, right? < ...
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- Dating Tips On How To Improve Your Scent
By: Julian Foxx | - Ok guys,
Let's talk hygiene.
Scientific data shows us women choose their mates, in large part, because of the perceived strength of the mans immune system. This, of course, gives her offspring a better chance of survival.
And amazingly, the most current research suggests that a mans SCENT actually determines the strength of his immune system.
So how does all this relate to dating?
First of all, personal hygiene is an exa ...
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- Dating Tips For Men: Know How To Meet Attractive Women
By: Julian Foxx | - Here's one of my treasured secrets to meeting beautiful girls...
Although in order to make it work you do have to live in a fairly metropolitan area. So if you're reading this from a farm, feel free to skip this email.
Still here?
Good:)
The first thing you need to do is to find out which newspapers or websites in your area cater to actors and models.
I live in NYC, so obviously there are plenty of options: Backstage, The ...
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- Dating Advice - The Benefits Of Being Early
By: Julian Foxx | - My whole life, I've always been late.
Whether it was a doctors appointment or a funeral, there I was, rushing in making apologies.
It was a way of life for me, and I was actually proud of it. I knew that I could talk my way out of trouble most of the time.
But it wasn't until I got into my late 20's that I made a profound discovery:
The amount of booty I was getting directly correlated to how EARLY I was to things.
It ...
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- How To Avoid Anxiety On Your Date
By: Julian Foxx | - Here's a quick tip that will help you reduce any anxiety you are feeling around her...
I call it "Imagine that..."
And it works. So try it the next time you have a date or are making an approach.
Quite simply you are going to imagine something specific about her.
For example, I have red hair...
So I like to imagine that she is total nympho when it comes to redheads.
Or, as mentioned in a previous email, if ...
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- Rapport Myths And Facts
By: Vin DiCarlo | - A word that gets thrown around a lot when guys discuss pickup is "rapport," the idea of forging a connection with a woman you are interested in.
Rapport is highly misunderstood. One example of this misunderstanding is the idea that "rapport" is a phase that one goes through, in a chronological process of courtship.
This is not completely untrue. Typically when a man and woman meet, the first couple minutes are defined by light, playful give-and-take, followed by mor ...
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- Dating Tips For Guys: Most Important Pickup Techniques To Develop
By: Julian Foxx | - Of all the questions that has been emailed to me, there is one that continues to appear...
"What is the most important skill to develop in pickup?"
I believe the very nature of this question is problematic. It somehow implies that there is a quick solution to our dating problems and that is simply not the case.
If there is one thing I've discovered in my trainings, it is this: Powerful pickup techniques can certainly help a client, but not NEARLY as ...
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- David Deangelo, Mr. L. Rx , Neil Strauss, Mystery Method Reviewed
By: Robert Bryan | -
The top five Dating Tip sites by Alexa ranking as of July 11, 2008 are:
Double your Dating – 12,987
Dating To Relating – 43,381
The Seduction Chronicles – 52,287
Style Life – 61,225
The Mystery Method – 62,997
I’ve bought all these books and systems and have tried them. I have been studying these kinds of materials for five years now. My ranking based on wor ...
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- Seduction, Dating And The Friend Zone
By: Julian Foxx | - The Community (in case you're new to this; the growing Community of Pickup Artists) has long held true to the belief that falling into the 'friend zone' is a bad thing. In fact it is a dreaded thing often muttered in a 1950's horror movie mummy voice. Not the "frieeend zooonne." I'm about to radically redefine your perception of what the friend zone is. It isn't something you should fear, it's something you should embrace. The friend zone is your friend...Bear with me...
A wh ...
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- Dating Tips: Pursuing Multiple Women
By: Julian Foxx | - It's my guess that most of the guys reading don't need much convincing that pursuing multiple romantic entanglements is definitely the way to go. However I think it's very important for us to examine the reasons why as it will at the very least justify our behavior;) And for those guys looking to settle down with that special someone it's even more important for you to understand and follow the guidelines in this article.
When you have multiple options, the loss of one is not a c ...
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