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         <title>Understanding the Keys to A Healthy Marriage</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Understanding-the-Keys-to-A-Healthy-Marriage/1043141</link>
         <description>So many people get married and then to their dismay have marriage problems and get a divorce. Over 50% of marriages result in a divorce and many people try marriage over and over again always ending up with the same result. You might think that there is something wrong with these people, however it seems that if this many people are suffering from marriage problems that lead to divorce and many others choose marriage counseling to help try and resolve their marital issues, that the problem is more a societal one than an individual one.

Our society makes marriage appear as in a fairy tale, the blissful couple riding away into the sunset. Shows that are broadcast that make some of the problems more apparents don't really help as they tend to look at it comically. There are many challenges within marriages, and it takes some perserverance, and the truth of this needs to be known.

What's the route to a great marriage? A good foundation is where to start, composed of friendship and trust not just the passion part. This is the basics that help people move through the hard parts.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+counselors" rel="tag">marriage counselors</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marital+problems" rel="tag">marital problems</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Do &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marital problems&lt;/a&gt; have you down? There is an alternative to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage counselors&lt;/a&gt; , visit lightyourfire.com today and see what they offer. Lightyourfire.com has specialists who can provide you with the support you need now. </description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 17:08:16 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>Running from Your Marriage Problems is Not the Answer</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Running-from-Your-Marriage-Problems-is-Not-the-Answer/1012997</link>
         <description>There are some married couples who love to confront each other, but there are some who will do anything to avoid confrontation. If there are fights happening inside the marriage some may try to avoid it by avoiding their spouse. Even though this brings a temporary peace it doesn't help to truly solve the issues, it actually will probably make it worse.

Fighting, of course, is not really ideal either. Usually fighting is very heated and also does not accomplish much, and while it may be okay to take some time and space to sort things out before coming to the table about them, this is difference from the complete avoidance method that some couples use. It is healthy, even necessary at times for married couples to take a few steps back to help diffuse the situation, but the key to using this as an effective marriage counseling solution is to come back and try to resolve the issue.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+counselors" rel="tag">marriage counselors</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marital+problems" rel="tag">marital problems</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Do &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marital problems&lt;/a&gt; have you down? There is an alternative to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage counselors&lt;/a&gt; , visit lightyourfire.com soon and see what they offer. Lightyourfire.com has specialists who can provide you with the support you require now.</description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 13:51:48 -0500</pubDate>
         <guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Running-from-Your-Marriage-Problems-is-Not-the-Answer/1012997</guid>
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         <title>Turning Around Your Marriage Problems</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Turning-Around-Your-Marriage-Problems/982330</link>
         <description>There are three main problems that effect marriages and these make up about 90% of all marriage problems. Money is the primary problem that married couples have. This issue can display itself in differences on how to spend money, which partner will make it and how the money is allocated. Many money issues are also a result of communication and control issues in the marriage as well. It is important than when you are looking at money issues in the form of marriage problems, that you not only look at money and spending issues but at the communication and control issues in the marriage as these are more than likely the root of the problem.

Participating in a extra marital affair is the second biggest issue for marriages. This is another issue stemming from a lack of communication within the union. If one partner is not finding fulfillment within their marriage this makes them begin to see what else is out there, allowing them to become involved in an relationship outside of the marriage vows.

And then the third issue having folks go to marriage counselors is the raising of the children.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/online+marriage+counseling" rel="tag">online marriage counseling</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Lightyourfire.com can assist you if you're looking for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;online marriage counseling&lt;/a&gt; . If you are experiencing &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage problems&lt;/a&gt; go to lightyourfire.com today and see how they can assist. There are professionals available to assist if you have questions. </description>
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         <pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 14:16:34 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Marriage Counseling...Is It All It's Cracked Up To Be?</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Marriage-Counseling---Is-It-All-It-s-Cracked-Up-To-Be-/960734</link>
         <description>Many marriages are in trouble. Perhaps it is due to money or affairs, or sometimes it is just do to lack of the communication in the relationship. No matter what problems you incur in your marriage, there is hope, but perhaps it is not found in marriage counseling.

Marriage problems usually build over time and many are issues that have a financial base. If money is an issue that is affecting your marriage, then right off the bat the extra stress of paying upward of $100 per session for a marriage counselor may not be advisable.

Something else that occurs around marriage counseling and the cost is that people wait too long to seek counseling due to being embarrassed about having to ask for help, then the marriage is at a badly damaged point. When they get to this point and then turn to a counselor, they expect the counselor to fix the problems. We've all heard about couples going to marriage counseling and then file for divorce after a few more months.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/couples+therapy" rel="tag">couples therapy</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Starting &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;couples therapy&lt;/a&gt; may be your first thought if you're having &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage problems&lt;/a&gt; . But click on lightyourfire.com now to see what they have that might help you. Allow their specialists to assist you in finding a solution instead of counseling. View lightyourfire.com today.</description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 10:00:15 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Will Marriage Counseling Provide Enough to Save the Marriage?</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Will-Marriage-Counseling-Provide-Enough-to-Save-the-Marriage-/934694</link>
         <description>Two people living together are going have some dancing to do to keep everything balanced in their busy lives. There are stressors that are going to arrive, this is part of living and can't be avoided. A marriage takes a certain amount of effort to keep that balance, but it doesn't mean there are marriage problems just because there's a disagreement.

Marriage problems most commonly occur when a couple is unable to deal with the conflicts that arise, either not being able to resolve them, or holding onto conflict for too long after it initially occurs. For the most part, this will occur where there has been a breakdown of communication between husband and wife, and that break in communication leads to the inability to work together as a couple on the problems at hand.

A couple may try to push past this communication problem but sometimes things get worse if they are not listening with good communication skills. Then somebody gets hurt feeling and it becomes a slippery slope and there's no good resolution. Here's where couples will find themselve with two paths, either to divorce or to seek marriage counseling.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/saving+marriage" rel="tag">saving marriage</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+programs" rel="tag">marriage programs</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Prior to making any decisions about your &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;saving marriage&lt;/a&gt; problems, go to lightyourfire.com. Their professionals can assist you in reviewing some &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage programs&lt;/a&gt; which would be helpful for you. Let lightyourfire.com show you the many ways they can find a solution to the problems.</description>
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         <pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 09:35:03 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Staying Faithful to Your Spouse</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Staying-Faithful-to-Your-Spouse/916860</link>
         <description>The marriage bond requires commitment to the relationship, while forsaking others. The act of getting married does not, however, keep temptation at bay, even if you love your spouse. There are going to be temptations along the road of marriage.

There is always going to be temptations in the world, and most people are aware when it raises it's head. But the road travelled sometimes is where one spouse allows the flirting of the attraction to linger. The best way to avoid this and having an affair is to keep yourself away from temptations grasp.

If you feel attracted to a member of the opposite sex or feel a spark, run for the hills. Don't meet that person in a social situation unless your spouse is present and you have to be there, like a work related event. Don't stop to talk to them one on one. It may sound cold, but avoiding these types of interactions will help you to avoid having the opportunity to take those feelings further.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+counseling" rel="tag">marriage counseling</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> If you're experiencing &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage problems&lt;/a&gt; click on lightyourfire.com today and allow their professionals to assist you in finding a solution. &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;Marriage counseling&lt;/a&gt; may not be necessary for your situation, you have alternatives. View lightyourfire.com to see what may be available for you today.</description>
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         <pubDate>Wed, 13 Jan 2010 10:56:55 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Getting Marriage Counseling to Avoid Divorce</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Getting-Marriage-Counseling-to-Avoid-Divorce/895622</link>
         <description>If an issue arises in your relationship that seems insurmountable you may consider that divorce is the way to go. But others surrounding the relationship may think it's fixable and think the couple should receive counseling for help. Will the marriage counseling help to avoid a divorce?

There are many things that can cause conflict in a relationship. No two people think exactly alike, so naturally differences of opinion will arise. It is how each person in the marriage handles the conflict that makes or breaks the bond. Communication is key, since many times the issues that couples fight over are just masking the true underlying problems. Since many people are unaware of this, they will fight endlessly about petty things without ever addressing the root causes of the friction.

Marriage counselors can help couples get through normal issues, but a lot of couples don't go to the counselor until their marriage is about to break up. Finances, in-laws, how to raise children are al the things that arise and appear to be so big there's no way to move fix them, so some look for counseling as a last resort.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/saving+marriage" rel="tag">saving marriage</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+programs" rel="tag">marriage programs</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Prior to making any decisions about your &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;saving marriage&lt;/a&gt; problems, go to lightyourfire.com. Their representatives can assist you in reviewing some &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage programs&lt;/a&gt; which would be helpful for you. Let lightyourfire.com show you the many ways they can find a solution to the issues.</description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 29 Dec 2009 18:19:56 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Need To Work on Your Relationship, Try a Weeklong Getaway</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Need-To-Work-on-Your-Relationship--Try-a-Weeklong-Getaway/873185</link>
         <description>As a couple you may be beginning to feel the stresses of the season taking hold. Run over here, than over there, the work seems endless and there never seems to be enough money to accomplish everything that you would like to do. The holidays could be a romantic time, if you weren't so darn busy all the time, but if you relationship is feeling the heat, than perhaps it is a good time to take a break from it all, and start focusing on the things that are truly important to you.

Consider going away with your partner, leaving behind all the phones, computers and televisions. Find a calm, quiet place to just be together and talk to each other and find one another again. You both deserve it and it could be your present to each other.

A week away from the outside world will do wonders for your relationship, and it doesn't matter where you go, as long as you shut out all the stressors of daily life and just take time to enjoy each other.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/saving+marriage" rel="tag">saving marriage</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+programs" rel="tag">marriage programs</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Prior to making any decisions regarding your &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;saving marriage&lt;/a&gt; problems, visit lightyourfire.com. Their specialists can assist you in reviewing some &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage programs&lt;/a&gt; which would be helpful for you. Let lightyourfire.com show you the many ways they can find a answer to the issues. </description>
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         <pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 20:53:04 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Help for Couples to Make It Through the Holidays</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Help-for-Couples-to-Make-It-Through-the-Holidays/854817</link>
         <description>All marriages will have some issues during the holidays either occassionally or every year due to the high stress during this time. If there are any underlying problems in the marriage they definitely will come up during this time. All of the major things that push people over the edge, family, money and time crunch come up during this wonderful season.

You can deal with it however, with some thoughts here toward maintaining your marriage and sanity during these fabulous holidays. Look below for these thoughts and see if they can help you.

Simplicity - Don't try to do too much, watch the budget and party commitments, don't overdo either of them. Planning - Start now while there's still time, make a schedule, talk about how to get through it. Having a schedule will help tremendously during this time. Discussion - Both people in the marriage need to discuss all the plans, how much to spend and which parties to go to. This way no one can blame the other if they get pulled in too many directions.

Time away- Give yourself time away from all the parties and family, time just for each other.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/saving+marriage" rel="tag">saving marriage</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+programs" rel="tag">marriage programs</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Prior to making any decisions regarding your &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;saving marriage&lt;/a&gt; problems, click on lightyourfire.com. Their professionals can assist you in reviewing some &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage programs&lt;/a&gt; which would be helpful for you. Let lightyourfire.com reveal to you the many ways they can find a solution to the issues.</description>
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         <pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 17:19:43 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Good Ideas and Bad Ideas for Marriage</title>
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         <description>Marriage is a journey and it brings good along with the difficult times. Below are some ideas to help as you traverse this time in your life.

Here are some positives to practice as you go. keep love first, comments should be made with love. Make sure things that are small remain small and most of them are. Keep smiling, try to look your best for your spouse by taking care of yourself. Talk in a kind way, admit you're wrong if you are. Create the time you need to focus on your relationship and put the work into it that's necessary. Share what you feel, keep the physical touch happening. Show respect with your actions and words, continue to work on all your issues together.

Here are some things to try to not do in your marriage so it maintains it's vigor. Don't talk about problems in your marriage with other people, and don't talk negatively about your spouse. Spending time with the opposite sex might be bad. Don't nag, and don't have to win every conversation, it's not a competition there are other ways to do things.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/online+marriage+counseling" rel="tag">online marriage counseling</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Lightyourfire.com can help you if you're searching for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;online marriage counseling&lt;/a&gt; . If you are experiencing &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage problems&lt;/a&gt; go to lightyourfire.com right now and see how they can help. There are specialists availabe to help if you have questions.</description>
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         <pubDate>Sun, 15 Nov 2009 10:20:24 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Consider Helpful Premarital Counseling</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Consider-Helpful-Premarital-Counseling/807040</link>
         <description>All couples have issues from the beginning but they won't necessarily see that until some time has passed. It's not apparent when you're a couple just starting out, but marriage couneling would be a benefit to work through some of those issues before they become a problem later.

As people go through divorce there are several common elements they tell as reasons for the break, child raising disagreements, problems within their immeadiate families, infidelities and money problems. If you have the skills from the outset as to how to work together to solve these as they arose then your relationship would go further.

Your ability to work through different situations will be a key in most premarital counseling settings, this offers you a window to see how you both will handle and resolve the problem. You'll also have the ability to see how your spouse feels about certain issues such as money handling.

Falling in love and looking forward to marriage are wonderful times in all lives, but at this point everything is rosy, but even the best marriages have differences they need to work through over time and this is the reality that will come about eventually.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/online+marriage+counseling" rel="tag">online marriage counseling</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Lightyourfire.com can help you if you're looking for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;online marriage counseling&lt;/a&gt; . If you are experiencing &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage problems&lt;/a&gt; vist lightyourfire.com today and see how they can help. There are specialists availabe to help if you have questions.</description>
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         <pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 13:08:25 -0500</pubDate>
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         <title>Marriage Happiness - Ten Tips for Happiness</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Marriage-Happiness---Ten-Tips-for-Happiness/787992</link>
         <description>Getting married is a big step, wanting the love to be there forever is a realistic though but it will take some effort. Here are some ideas for you to consider, they will help you reach that goal.

Continue the love through the problems - Be sure to keep giving love, don't withhold it, during hard times or when issues arise. Don't withdraw the love, it's a big mistake made often by couples, it's destructive. Honesty is best - Don't lie or be deceitful, your relationship won't survive errors made in this area. Honesty will allow your relationship to continue, sometimes it's difficult but it's worth it.

Avoid being judgemental - There are going to be things your spouse shares with you that may make you feel judgemental, avoid this impulse. They need to be able to communicate with you and if you judge them the communication will diminish. Flexibility - People grow and change so you must be accepting of a spouse or relationship that is experiencing life changing growth. Reserve alone time - you must reserve time for you and your spouse to have the opportunity to escape all the schedules and stress, this is very relationship affirming.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marital+problems" rel="tag">marital problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/Light+Your+Fire" rel="tag">Light Your Fire</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> If you are experiencing &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marital problems&lt;/a&gt; there is a counseling alternative at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;Light Your Fire&lt;/a&gt; . Go to lightyourfire.com today and see what they have to offer you and your partner. Allow the specialists to help you in locating a solution to the issues today!</description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 14:06:11 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>Marriage Counseling Is Not Always A Solution</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Marriage-Counseling-Is-Not-Always-A-Solution/780016</link>
         <description>Tell people that you are having marriage problems and one of the first things out of their mouth, will probably be marriage counseling. Marriage counseling is not the answer to everyone's marriage problems, as a matter of fact it can do very little to repair a marriage.

This is because a marriage counselor is viewed similarly to a physician, like they're someone who's going to heal the problem. Mainly a marriage counselor, similar to other counselors, will be a listener and then offer some tools for you to be able to fix it yourself.

Not to say that there's any problem with going to a marriage counselor but they are just providing the exercises you need to do your own healing. Really there are only a small number who are actually good at this even though it seems there are a lot of them available.

A much cheaper alternative to marriage counseling and therapy is to get books and tapes that will give you the tools you will need to help repair your marriage and help you get through the rough patches.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/online+marriage+counseling" rel="tag">online marriage counseling</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/couples+therapy" rel="tag">couples therapy</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Is the search beginning for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;online marriage counseling&lt;/a&gt; due to relationship problems? Go to lightyourfire.com right now and let their professionals assist you in finding some &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;couples therapy&lt;/a&gt; . Lightyourfire.com will provide you with a solid resource to assist you in your relationship journey.</description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 13 Oct 2009 11:49:14 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>How to Handle a Depressed Partner</title>
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         <description>When your life is intertwined with someone else's, it is nice to say that what happens to them is their stuff, but in reality it is affecting everyone around them. To be defensive and try not to deal with the feelings surrounding the issues is really just a case of bottling your feelings and eventually no matter how much you don't want to deal with it, those bottled feelings will spill over into your life as well, and sometimes to the point where their depression and anxiety becomes contagious.

Depression and other mental health issues are not a laughing matter and need to be addressed. Clinically speaking depression is an illness and should be treated as seriously as if your spouse was having a severe illness like uncontrolled vomiting or loss of appetite or breath.

Whenever someone is diagnosed or has sign of depression, everyone's first instinct is to try and cheer them up. They get offers to go to a friends house, take in a game or even to spend a night out with friends in a bar.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+counseling" rel="tag">marriage counseling</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> If you are experiencing &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com&quot;&gt;marital problems&lt;/a&gt; , visit &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com&quot;&gt;Light Your Fire&lt;/a&gt; at www.lightyourfire.com right now. We will help you discover what to in order to save your marriage. This article is available as a &lt;a href='http://www.uberarticles.com/home.php?id=1180151'&gt;unique content article&lt;/a&gt; with free reprint rights.</description>
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         <pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 2009 14:40:40 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>Finding Marriage Counseling for Free</title>
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         <description>These trying economic times have impacts beyond what we can readily see. There are some couples in a bind, they have a money issue and that creates marriage issues, but they have no finances to try to seek marriage counseling or a divorce.

Being forced to keep it together may appear to be the ultimate torture, but some research reveals there's a bright side. In tough financial times couples may figure out a way to make it work so they can get through it. With more money they might have gone right to divorce, this recession may actually create a relationship fix.

There are actually many places that you can receive free marriage counseling help if you are a couple in this type of situation. One place to look is in your local library. Check into the self help section and you will find some hidden treasures of books that can not only give you the tools to help save your marriage, but can also help you grow on a personal level as well. Using marriage counseling books in conjunction with other self help materials is sure to help make a difference in your life.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+counselors" rel="tag">marriage counselors</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Prior to making any decisions about your &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage problems&lt;/a&gt; go to lightyourfire.com. Their professionals can assist you in reviewing some &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage counselors&lt;/a&gt; which would be helpful for you. Let lightyourfire.com show you the many ways they can locate a solution to the issues.</description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 29 Sep 2009 11:42:19 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>Marriage and The True Love In It</title>
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         <description>Many people think you fall in love and get married and that is that. No worries after all, you love each other so nothing else matters..right? Guess again. Marriage is a constant working relationship that can get difficult and demanding as roles change and you must change to suit the overall needs of the marriage.

Some people call these things "deal breakers" however it is truly best to think of this as the ways that life shapes and shifts and not to hold stead fast to any one idea, as things are dynamic and constantly changing. Here is an example how life can throw you a curve ball when you least expect it.

A stable, successful couple married 10 years with two children, Mary and Jim have a wonderful life together. When they were married, it was agreed for Mary to stay home and take care of things and Jim would work. He was very successful, making partner in his law firm, so they were very financially and socially gifted. Jim went to his doctor for a regular checkup and a mass was found in his right lung.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/online+marriage+counseling" rel="tag">online marriage counseling</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+coun" rel="tag">marriage coun</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> If you are thinking about &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage counseling&lt;/a&gt; you will want to consider &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;Light Your Fire&lt;/a&gt; first. They may have the answer for the issues in your marriage. Go to lightyourfire.com right now and see if their representatives can help you with the challenges in your relationship. </description>
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         <pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 17:01:46 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>Protecting Children From Disruptive Relationships</title>
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         <description>In a tight knit family you may share a lot of things but there are some things that your children don't need to know. If you are in a marriage or other significant relationship you need to keep your disagreements to yourself. Putting children in the middle of an argument, especially between two partners who are their parents is just wrong. Your children need to know that they are loved and supported by both their parents, and spouting negatives about your spouse who is their mother or father truly does have a negative affect on them.

Sure you don't really see the harm in it. After all, they can see what you are talking about. You may even be telling the truth. The problem is that by doing this you are making them feel uneasy about their own life; creating an air that perhaps you will separate or divorce and rock their world even further. You may not even feel that way, however by airing your marriage problems to your kids you are involving them in a grown up situation that they are not ready to deal with.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+counseling" rel="tag">marriage counseling</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marital+problems" rel="tag">marital problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/ma" rel="tag">ma</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Going to a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage counselor&lt;/a&gt; may be your first inclination if you're having &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage problems&lt;/a&gt; . But click on lightyourfire.com first to see what they have that might assist you. Allow their professionals to assist you in finding a solution instead of counseling. View lightyourfire.com today! </description>
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         <pubDate>Tue, 18 Aug 2009 16:44:41 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>Life Lessons</title>
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         <description>Many parents feel that the school system has one major shortcoming and that is teaching about real life. Real life situations such as credit card usage, balancing a checkbook, saving money and donating to charity are all important topics that should be taught and understood. Knowledge of these topics will carry them through to adulthood.

In an interesting program on television there was a man teaching kids about just such a thing. Using a format similar to the game of life, he was teaching children to deal with real life circumstances and situation. The game goes like this:

Every player is required to select a job and a character. Each job is then given a realistic salary. The paychecks will reflect any taxes or insurance deductions and can be given out monthly or bi weekly. These are all choices for each child to make. This is reality and it is very clear to the children. The next step is creating the game board. One trip around the board will represent one pay period. There will be spaces for real life situations, some good some bad.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/parenting+skills" rel="tag">parenting skills</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/parenting+advice" rel="tag">parenting advice</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> 
Parenting Informed is a great website that offers such a variety of helpful &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentinginformed.com&quot;&gt;parenting advice&lt;/a&gt; . Once you visit you will find out how to hone your &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentinginformed.com&quot;&gt;parenting skills&lt;/a&gt; to fit the specific needs of your individual child. </description>
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         <pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 20:01:06 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>Tips On Maintaining A Healthy Marriage</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Tips-On-Maintaining-A-Healthy-Marriage/688004</link>
         <description>No one is perfect. There is no existing perfect marriage so yours won't be perfect either. Marriage takes some work and some dedication to one another. You may reach a point where you may think about counseling or walking away but hang in there. If the two of you will work together you will find a resolution.

Look for the positive. When you are feeling discouraged and wondering why you are even together, look at the positive things that your spouse brings to your life. Write them down and focus on them. What you focus on grows, so nurture the positives in life and that is what you will get more of. Communicate. Many times one of the most difficult things to do in a marriage, especially if you have hit a rough patch, but also by far one of the most important. Be willing to lay it all on the line, exposing your fears, feelings and frustrations can really help get to the heart of an issue. 

Listening Skills. Most people get defensive or shut down when they hear something negative about themselves.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+counseling" rel="tag">marriage counseling</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marriage+problems" rel="tag">marriage problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/marital+problems" rel="tag">marital problems</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/ma" rel="tag">ma</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Going to a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage counselor&lt;/a&gt; may be your first thought if you're experiencing &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.lightyourfire.com/&quot;&gt;marriage problems&lt;/a&gt; . But go to lightyourfire.com first to investigate what they have that might help you. Allow their specialists to help you in locating a solution instead of counseling. View lightyourfire.com today! </description>
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         <pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2009 14:21:59 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>The Have and Have Nots Of Childhood</title>
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         <description>Raising children can be tough, and it can get even tougher once your child begins school, if you happen to be a family that can not afford the extra luxuries of life. As young children they are happy with what they have, since they don't know what the other children may be getting but once school starts they begin to see what Tommy, Sally and Joe have and the competition of lifetime begins. Parents tend to have the misconception that if you love your children you will give them everything they want, and spoil them appropriately.

This type of spoiling, however, has many drawback, the worst being that your child begins to feel that they are entitled to these items and the older they get the greater their demand become. If you have the money then you continue to spoil and keep giving your children what they want, since you do not want to see them upset. However, if you are less fortunate, you begin to feel guilty because you are unable to provide these items for your children, therefore causing them to be unhappy.

This has been an on going battle in my family.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/parenting+skills" rel="tag">parenting skills</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/parenting+tips" rel="tag">parenting tips</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> 
When a child is born so is a parent, that's how the saying goes. However the parent is not born with the unflawable &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentinginformed.com&quot;&gt;parenting skills&lt;/a&gt; and need to learn and grow with there child. For &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentinginformed.com&quot;&gt;parenting tips&lt;/a&gt; and various information on parenting log onto www.parentinginformed site</description>
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         <pubDate>Sun, 19 Jul 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>Getting Your Children To Do Chores</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Getting-Your-Children-To-Do-Chores/661773</link>
         <description>All children seem to be born with an anti-work gene, that causes them to complain whenever they are asked to do their chores, or so it seems. As a parent you are forced to ask what is the most effective was to get them to do their chores. I'm am sure at some point you have all tried screaming and yelling, with little to no success, so how what is the best way to get the chores done without hearing all the complaining that usually accompanies your request.

They have to want to do the work; they have to take ownership in what they are doing. When they are young it doesn't matter if it is done exactly right, as long as they try and make an effort. As they get older, it becomes more and more important for the work to be done right. It doesn't count if you do something and then have to do it over again because you didn't put your full effort into it. 

It is hard to get a child to understand the difference between doing something, and doing something right.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/parenting+skills" rel="tag">parenting skills</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/parenting+resources" rel="tag">parenting resources</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> When you become a parent your &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentinginformed.com&quot;&gt;parenting skills&lt;/a&gt; development as your child grows and enters new stages of life. Each stage of life brings new and challenging situations for both you and your child. The best way to prepare yourself is by keeping current with all the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentinginformed.com&quot;&gt;parenting resources&lt;/a&gt; available to you on the web. For the largest selection available log onto www.parentinginformed.com. </description>
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         <pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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         <title>Printed Mugs-Perfect For Inexpensive Promotions</title>
         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Printed-Mugs-Perfect-For-Inexpensive-Promotions/651608</link>
         <description>What company can't use a little advertising assistance. A promotion to consider for your company is printed coffee mugs. Vital information is kept fingertip close with a handy mug. Whether you put your logo or decide on other important stuff like your address and website info, these are a good tool. Kept in the corporate kitchen they will get lots of use.

Printed mugs are not expensive, either, so they make a perfect way to brand your company over the long haul. Its one of the most affordable ways to promote your business for the long term.

When you think about how often people change jobs you realize the continuity of introducing new employees to company facts. Depending on what you print on your mugs you can teach or remind people bits and pieces of company information on the mug itself. All you have to do is stick a pile of mugs next to the ubiquitous coffee pot. They will get seen and utilized up to 7 days a week.

All you need to do is seek out a business that sells promotional products. They will have a variety of mugs to choose from and plenty of design ideas.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/promotional+merchandise" rel="tag">promotional merchandise</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/promotional+mugs" rel="tag">promotional mugs</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/givaways" rel="tag">givaways</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]> Whether you decide that you love mugs for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.promotionalpro.com/printed-promotional-corporate-gifts.htm&quot;&gt;corporate gifts&lt;/a&gt; or something else. People love getting &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.promotionalpro.com/promotional-printed-logo-pens-pencils.htm&quot;&gt;promotional pens&lt;/a&gt; as well because they are useful too. </description>
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         <pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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         <link>http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Healthy-Habits-For-Kids/648933</link>
         <description>Early teaching and early influences in a child's life help set them up for their futures. Many parents choose to read, sing and talk to their children while still in the womb as a way to help stimulate the learning centers in the developing brain.

Learning, however, is something that is hyper-sensitive during the first few years of life, and therefore it is important to begin teaching your children from right out of the womb what you want and expect from them. The most important way to do this is to emulate the behaviors that you want them to do. While babies are still quiet and unable to talk, they spend all their time watching and listening and learning. 

Even simple behaviors like brushing your teeth every day in front of your baby, will be followed by your child and remembered as something that is expected. They are learning every time they see you do it. It is a mistake to try to teach such things as tooth brushing and hand washing once they are older.  **End Summary**  Topics: <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/parenting+resources" rel="tag">parenting resources</a>]]> <![CDATA[<a href="http://www.articlesnatch.com/topic/parenting+advice" rel="tag">parenting advice</a>]]><![CDATA[<p>]]> About the Author: <![CDATA[<br>]]>  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentinginformed.com&quot;&gt;Parenting resources&lt;/a&gt; are available at no cost if you just look on the internet. Visit parentinginformed.com for some of the most valuable &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.parentinginformed.com&quot;&gt;parenting advice&lt;/a&gt; available on the internet. </description>
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         <pubDate>Wed, 24 Jun 2009 00:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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