The Signs Of A Cheating Boyfriend You Don't Want To Overlook

Did you ever discover something that you wish you hadn't? This is the same reason many women know in their hearts they've been cheated on, but remain in denial. They've seen the signs of cheating boyfriend but refuse to truly notice them.

In this world of uncertainty and the recent precipitous dive in "family values", a cheater can find refuge in the anonymity of numbers. Shocking numbers!

Fifty percent does seem high, and when I saw it I had the same reaction you're probably having right nowdisbelief. I then went on to research that there are only a small minority of people who actually do something about it.

Okay, you're doing research on this topic so you're already ahead of the game. This means you are among the small group of women who have the courage and dignity to do something about your situation. You've seen the signs of a cheating boyfriend and you decided to do something about it. This means that you are willing to take action and initiative, the power to take your life into your own hands and be happy for once.

Like military snipers will tell you; sometimes the hardest targets to see are right in front of you. The same holds true for a woman in our situation. We know it's there we just can't see it. Eventually, we lose sight and then everything just blends in and gets out of focus.

This is one of those moments in your life where you have to decide to take action or sit on the sidelines. As humans our fear kicks in when we are faced with the choice to find out information that we know we don't want to know. It's like being called into the bosses office and you don't know why. That fear comes over you and then you find out...hey, this isn't so bad.

PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER! This is your life. You make the calls (At least you probably used to). Take control of your life again, pull your confidence together and begin living again.

- "Hmmm...Honey, you know I am not one of those controlling girlfriends, but uuhh...where have you been!?! It 6 o'clock in the morning!" This is one of the more obvious signs of a cheating boyfriend, but one that is overlooked many...many times.

- Your Boyfriend lacks that raging libido that once was on the verge of excessive.

- Does your boyfriend fall under the repeat offender list when it comes to unfaithful behavior? Perhaps you have a clue already that you haven't looked into. Depending on your man's stories about past relationships this could be valuable evidence in building your case.

- He can't look you in the eye? This is a major clue. Then when you ask him why he gets really angry. Guilt can be a funny thing. It takes control and makes the signs easy to read.

- You have short brown hair, but you keep finding long blond hair on your boyfriends shirt, car, pantsetc.

- Check receipts! Find any receipts for flowers or jewelry but never received the benefit of his credit card dept. Look for recent purchase on receipts or even on-line computer statements.

- Does he use the computer so much he could be a member of the IT support team at work. The age of the computer has brought a whole new game to the cheating world. It makes it easier than ever to cheatand even easier to pick up the signs of a cheating boyfriend and catch him.

- This is an obvious one, the easiest one to catch, but the most overlooked. It's simple, if he won't let you see his phone or gets nervous when you look at ityou know it's time to do some investigating.

- Are his friends working in collusion with these question provoking scenarios? Men suck at covering for one another. Can you spot the inconsistencies?

- Do you feel like you are trying to preserve something and constantly chasing a fading memory of happiness? Has everything changed? It is always possible your man has evolved into an even bigger jackass and there is nothing else to it! On the other hand maybe there is!! In either case, signs of a cheating boyfriend or not, it's time to move on.

Remember, we still have to build a solid case before we make any attempt at questioning your suspected cheating boyfriend. This will only hurt our chances of gathering concrete evidence! As women, we often think we have plenty of evidence, yet since we cannot predict how our suspected boyfriend will answer, we must be prepared to answer his every excuse with a fact. Remember, he can't deny anything, once you have solid proof!