Sugar And Spice May Look Nice!

Rose, thirty-five years old from New Delhi. I thought I was not going to get married anymore. I am a firm believer that God has created the perfect one for me. It is just a matter of asking and seeking for God to answer and preparing to meet that person He has planned for me. Now I am at thirty-five years old, and I am beginning to wonder if there is one for me out there. At my age, child-bearing will be difficult, and my family has a history of miscarriages and abnormalities in babies. I am afraid I will suffer both when the time for me comes.

This is just one story we often hear from women who have not had a boyfriend. Also a man who has not been involved with a person for so long. One would begin to judge her characteristics, especially for women, how one handles things, how he or she relates to people or the question like, "am I sociable?" comes into mind. There was a time when people are so much caught up with making a career. They were focusing on getting rich that they forget that a part of life is to have one's own family. One that you can take care of, love and see to their success when time comes. People get so caught up in the things of the world that they thought that would make them happy. I hear people say that when you have your own family, you will realize that your life can now be complete.

Due to the rise of modernization and everything is turning electronically; people find it easy to use the internet. Not only does it offer a vast of resources for information, but it also shows us new ways to look for the one God has set for us out there. Even if, that person is in the other half of the globe, million miles away from where an individual is he or she can still get in touch, socialize and talk to that person. Chat rooms are one of the ways to meet that future partner in life. Dating services both in the real world and on-line has their share of clients seeking their advice on match-making. Still everything boils down to one thing: what do you want in a partner?

Of course, embarking on this journey of searching for your one true love is a little exciting, and stressful. Others would say one should join a social group, from church or work, join a club of interest or meet up with old friends constantly. Some who are so religious would advise to pray for that person and prepare yourself to meet him too. It is not always meeting the perfect one but being the perfect one for that person. People believe in the thing called destiny. They say that one is destined to find each other. However, how do you know which one? With all the millions of people out there also looking for their soul mate, how sure are you that the guy you meet around the corner is the guy you ought to marry?

Crazy sometimes but everyone is in for the ride. It is part of enjoying life and grasping what a good life has got to offer.