Stay Out Of The Friend Zone - Dating 101

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If you find a woman attractive and have a romantic interest in her, don't be friends with her.

1. It's dishonest. Being friends with a woman just so you can get close to her is not fair.
2. It doesn't work.
3. You want to be her lover, not her friend

What you've got to realise about women is that often, although they pretend to be modest and down-play their looks, they secretly think they are really hot. Especially if they get loads of male attention.

Women like that think that men want to be friends with them simply because they have a sparkling personality and nothing at all do with their looks.

So, there are HUGE opportunities with that sort of woman. Most men want to be friends (sick) and the man who doesn't, who just isn't interested in playing her games, who doesn't pander to her every whim, is suddenly very interesting indeed.

So, why else should you stay out of the Friend Zone.

* Women don't see friends as potential lovers
* Once you're in the Friend Zone, it's very difficult to get out. Women will refuse to believe you just wanted to be friends to get close to her, so they'll find it very difficult to accept that you want to be 'more than just friends'.
* By hanging out with someone you desperately want to be with, you're exposing yourself to all sorts of heartache when she tells you all about the men she's been with and is currently going with.

Definitely review your tactics when you start being nicey-nicey to a woman you want to have a physical relationship with.

Use this type of strategy instead:

* Ensure from the word 'GO' that Miss X is aware of your romantic intentions.
* NEVER outright tell her that though, at this stage anyway. This will keep her on her toes.
* Once you've known her long enough to know she won't boil your buns, ask her out. Directly and without apprehension.

No wasted time hanging around with her, hoping she'll see what a great guy you are. Instant 'yes' or 'no'. If it's a 'yes', great, make arrangements, YOU make the arrangements. If she says 'no thanks' or even 'lol no way', don't become angry or aggressive, be polite and move on.

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