Signs Of Cheating Wife

Your gut tells you somethings wrong. Your friends or coworkers act uncomfortable around you. You find sexy new dresses in her closet but shes not wearing them for you.

Are these signs that shes cheating?

Theres no need to insult you by spelling out every possible signal that your wife may be having an affair. If youre honest with yourself, you know it, its just too painful or humiliating to admit.

Yet, without first acknowledging the truth, theres no way to fix things or move on in your life.

That elephant in the living room isnt going away on its own. So what you really need is hard and sure evidence.

But what if the evidence is undeniable she is having an affair? Youll have some serious soul-searching and decisions to make. To help you know if its at that point yet, take a look at these warning signs.

She stops wanting sex, or suddenly wants a lot of it, and it doesnt make sense

She pulls away physically and emotionally

She talks a lot about a friend at work or a neighbor or clams up altogether, giving you the cold shoulder

She begins getting secretly giddy, and it spills over because she cant or doesnt want to contain it.

Sexy new dresses, lingerie or a new hairstyle appear, but she doesnt wear them for you.

Hushed phone calls, startled hang-ups, defensiveness or excuses if you question who was on the phone

Stops calling you at work or calls more than usual, a symptom of guilt.

Nags more, becomes touchy about things, becomes defensive or overly sweet

Sudden prolific (guilty) gift giving

New email or cell phone account just for her own use

Renewed interest in her personal appearance, new perfumes or wearing makeup (or wearing it differently)

New favorite TV shows

Likes new music

Develops a new hobby and might insist you share it

Suddenly has a favorite new hang-out

Likes a new kind of food

Unexplained birth control devices youre not using (i.e. condoms if youve had a vasectomy)

More frequent, longer or oddly-timed shopping trips

Withdrawal from your emotional life and less interest in you and your day

Either of you getting an STD

Sudden, open dissatisfaction with anything she can find to start a fight about

Distant and preoccupied

Uncharacteristic eagerness to leave on business trips

Increased interest in romantic movies and books, movies on cheating (Bridges of Madison County), cheating songs

Time spent carefully evaluating a gift item that seems out of the ordinary and that never appears under your tree.

Yeah, I know, but you already knew, deep inside, and it HURTS. Just because its painful to face doesnt change the facts. Fooling yourself by denying it only serves to prolong the pain, divert your attention. Why stall the inevitable?

Conclusion

Do you want a reconciliation or evidence for a fast divorce that doesnt cost you an arm and a leg (since shes already pulverized your heart and ego)?

Counseling can save you marriage, with hard work, if both partners truly want to try. Otherwise it might be best to cut your losses and move on with your life.