Relationships 101- Keep The Past In The Past

Relationships 101- Keep The Past In The Past

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You are with your guy or your girl just doing your thing around the house and bam- they do something that makes you think about your ex that got on your last nerves. Then you are reliving your past and getting annoyed with your partner. When its all over, you are upset and they are confused.

Are you guilty of punishing your lady and man for something that happened in a previous relationship? You have to keep the past in the past or you will ruin what you have now.

It is important to realize that you cannot lump all your relationships together. Here is one on the fundamentals of relationships 101- every relationship is different and should be treated as such. Lesson two, we are all human and make mistakes. Just because they forgot to call you at lunchtime doesnt mean they are cheating or they share your exs chronic tardiness disorder.

When you dont keep the past in the past, you will doom your relationship and sabotage it before it really has a chance. You are not their ex and they are not yours. So remember to take a moment and step back so you can get a level head and put things into perspective. You have no right to punish your current love for mistakes and transgressions of the past.

If you do not like or agree with something your current partner does, dont freak out or go into panic mode. Instead, calmly speak what you have observed and the feelings that it stirred. For instance, Hey babe, when you dont call me at lunchtime, it bums me out because I enjoy talking to you and I dont like feeling that way.

See how you were able to express how their actions made you feel without dragging your ex into it?

Then follow that up with a request in a non judgmental or irritated tone: If you start to get busy with work, could you please shoot me over a quick text to let me know?

In conclusion, keep this very important relationships101 lesson- keep the past in the past. Chances are that if you approach things with the right frame of mind, your new partner will be a lot more receptive to you and you will have a much better relationship.

Good Luck and Best Wishes
~Relationships 101- Keep the Past in the Past~


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