Relationship Problem: My Attitude Is Based On How You Treat Me

People change at some point in their life. But if what they were before, and how they are now in a relationship with seems to be different. Then you better take action on how you treat them. Some people change because of their surrounding and that include the people they care for.

If you treat them badly, don't be shocked if they will change into something different. Like to boys, if a girl treats them like a slave, boys would eventually think that they are not in a loving relationship. If boys treat their girls like slave, girls would think that they might want someone better other than someone who treats them so badly.

Either way, both gender would feel that they are not happy with their relationship because of how they are treated with their partner. If the other one lies, then the respond of their partner is that they will not trust the things they say to them. So how is that healthy?

In every relationship, both should respect each other and accept their differences. It is not like there is a black sheep in every relationship, but if there is one negative attitude then one must adjust and one must improve. Being in a relationship is not that simple like its always fun and games, its being serious for you and to your partner. You are committing to that person to be a better person not to be the worst.



Think of it this way, if you are going to live with someone who treats you badly, then you should picture out what your future might be. If you really love your partner, then try to talk to them and be open. If they really care for your feelings they would listen to you and understand what you are going through. And then your partner should take action and you need to adjust too.

If a person was better before and became worst, then there is no doubt that the relationship that he/she is in won't last. One must try to change and one must adjust, they both have to play the part in order to have a long lasting relationship. Its also about accepting one another and respect on who they are and what they are to you. But both should also respect and love one another to make things work and have a happy committed relationship.