Marriage Saving Advice For Women In Sexless Marriages

Much is said about women losing their sexual drive after the onset of children, but in reality more and more women are being faced with their husband or partner losing their libido. So if you are in this exact same situation and your husband does not want to get intimate with you, then you need marriage saving advice for women in sexless marriages!

Firstly it is important to dispel a myth! Most women think that their partners have stopped being intimate with them because they don't fancy them anymore, or that they have found somebody else! In a small minority of cases this may be true; however in the vast majority of cases, this is simply not true. If medical problems have been ruled out then nine times out of ten, it is because of underlying factors which are the route cause of loss of libido.

One of the reasons may well be that your husband or partner has piled on a few pounds over the last couple of months and they may not feel comfortable with their body. In some cases they may even feel ashamed. If you think that this is the case then you need to deal with this situation quite delicately. Make a suggestion to the family that you are trying to get them to eat healthier. Start to cook more calorie controlled meals and exercise portion control. Go walking with your family, and maybe even join a gym. Doing these things will make your husband see that you care about him, and that you have his interests at heart. Also tell him that you love him for who he is and what he has brought to the relationship.

Generally in life we are all under a certain amount of pressure, and this is certainly true of relationships and marriage. However, there are times when the effects of outside pressures creep in to our relationships. This might be because your partner is worried about the security of his job, and all the added pressure that goes with that, such as, money worries, and providing for the family etc. This stress may cause a lack of intimacy. If this is the case then you need to be prepared to listen to your partner when he wants to talk. Tell him that whatever he is going through, you will face it together. A problem shared is always a problem halved. Once he feels he has your total support then he may begin to relax a little, and intimacy should return.