Learn The Secrets Of The Kissing Cure

Great sex does not begin with rotten kisses. Most people do not usually think about the proper way to kiss, when it comes to the lip tango, most just wing it. However, each of us probably has encountered enough slobbers, peckers, and tonsil divers to know that there are right ways and wrong ways to kiss.

Think about it this way. The average person spends over 500 hours of their life kissing. At an approximate length of one minute each, that is over 30,000 kisses. It is therefore worth it to learn to kiss well. Banging your head against a wall uses 150 calories an hour. Good, rich, passionate kissing uses up to 600 calories an hour. You decide what your preference is.

The fun part in unlocking the secrets to intimacy, passion, romance and great kisses and that old saying that practice makes perfect is worth remembering. So, working on those rotten kisses can lead to passionate puckering. So if at first you do not succeed, kiss, kiss again.

Intimacy comes in many forms. Kissing is only one of them. Parents give their infants kisses on the checks, head, neck and hands, and in just about any spot to be found. The infant loves it. These brain maps that are created in childhood are taken into adulthood as unconscious styles of relating. Babies who are overwhelmed, over stimulated, or under attended, grow up often doing the same in relating to others: they overwhelm, over stimulate, or under attend.

When the kissing is rotten, all the rest of the stuff that goes along with it are rotten too, like hugs, hand holding, whispering, schmoozing will suffer as well. If sexual intimacy is what you want, if the kisses are rotten, you want less of it, or worse you end up with that good old American quickie.

When the kissing goes south, a lot of really great stuff goes away in time, like caring, closeness, sensitivity, esteem and oftentimes the relationship itself.

This is a shame because kissing can be so exciting. No one should be without this enriching, delicious experience in an intimate relationship, especially if you want maximum pleasure. We are born with the capacity to have pleasure. Demand it, or suffer! But know this: the true initial beginning of intimacy is the kiss.

Just for fun, let us take a look at some of the kinds of kisses. Ever heard of the Salvador Dali kiss? This starts with slightly open lips, do nothing. Have the mouth slightly ajar and on the soft side. This most amazingly vapid kiss requires that your mouth ultimately drip away. This should result in a formless sinking feeling.

The Hoover Maneuver should be tried with a vacuum cleaner in mind.
This kiss requires sucking, then moving, then sucking and moving. Fitting the lips of your partner is never a consideration. Just keep moving, sucking the upper lip, the lower lip and try to consume their tongue. Some folks have given interesting names to their kisses like: The Snake in the Grass; Train in the Station; The Catfish; The Bird in Flight. You get the idea, but it is all about trial and error, make it fun, and you can come up with your own names. Ones that cannot be printer here.