Late Better Than Never

My classmate lost his wife last year. It is hard for people to accept this sudden accident, but death arrives always so suddenly. My classmate says his wife's biggest hope was he can send flowers to her, but he thought too wasteful, and always put off to buy next time. In the end, he decorated her mourning hall with flowers after her death. Is it too stupid?

Wait... Wait... It seems we're waiting all life.

"When I graduate from college, I will do something like what..." We said to ourselves.

"When I buy a house, and then"

"When my youngest child gets married, then"

"When I get the big deal"

"Until I die..."

Everyone is willing to sacrifice the present for unknown waiting. We always sacrifice lifetime money to purchase the afterlife and ease. In Taiwan, walking in the mountain road, farmhouses have been changed fine houses here and there and hilly lands become fine graves. Many people think that they would take action until something completed.

Tomorrow I began to exercise. Tomorrow I will be kind to him a bit better; next week we will find time to go out for a walk. We'll enjoy life after retiring.

However, life has always been full of unpredictable changes and various emergencies always endlessly emerge in real life. As a doctor, I have seen the dead more than ordinary people could see.

Those people wake up in the morning, originally expect another ordinary day, but there were some unexpected things: the traffic accidents, apoplexy, heart attack, etc. Suddenly the wheel of life overturned into darkness.

So how do we face life?

There's no need to wait until everything is perfect and flawless; you can do anything you want to do now.

If your wife wants red roses, now send her. Don't wait until the next time. You just tell her sincerely and frankly: "I love you", "you are so good!"

Such love words never come too much.
If it is hard for you to speak, just write in a note and put on the table: "You're great!" Or: "My life is wonderful because of you." Don't be ashamed to express, grasp well.

Remember, sending a rose to a living person is better than expensive wreaths for the dead.

Everyone's life has its end. Many people often find that they have a lot of things to do and too many words to say till the end of their life, which is the greatest regret in ones life.

Don't let yourself feel everything is too late.

Do not chase the past and the unknown future. Now is the most precious time and worth to master. Many things have become old when you don't know how to cherish. Many people have become old when you dont put into your heart.

Something regretted happened again and again, but it is useless to regret the early time. "then" has been past, and the one you remember also has gone out of your life.

A Sweden maxim said: "we are old too fast, but clever too late."

No matter whether you perceive, life has been in advance. Life doesnt sell a round-trip ticket, so something lost will never come.

Don't wait for one day you may relax or all troubles are past.

The most beautiful things in life are fleeting. Enjoy them, treat everyone around well, and don't waste time waiting for all the problems on the perfect end.

In a word, grasp now, never wait.