Ladder Up And Never Fall Off The Stage Of Love

The first stage of love is when you first meet that person that makes your heart beat fast, makes your blood rush in your ears, and makes your palm all sweaty with anticipation. This is the stage when you first learn how it is to be in love. This is perhaps the most amazing sensation you would feel in your life, the feeling of warmth that you will always associate at being with the one you are in love with.

At this stage, you will tell yourself that you have found the one that you knew you have always been in love with and everything between the two of you just starts to unfold. You will be willing to accept everything about the person you love. You will not care what people think and say about them. You will overlook the any wrong doing they made in the past and accept it as mistakes of yesterdays. You will not notice their flaws in their character. All you will care about is that you love that person and no one can get between you and the love of your life.

It is such a wonderful feeling to love someone, knowing that the person you love is feeling the same way for you as you do for them. You will pray that this feeling will never end, and you will believe that it will never end.
The second stage of love is when that exciting feeling you first felt has faded and the fire burning in your skin is out. At this stage, you feel you both have given you are everything and done all the good things there is to do. The time that you so excitedly spent together on the first stage of your relationship has been spent and now it is just becoming a routine to be together.

You suddenly get that feeling of discontent and uneasiness in being with just each other. You will start blaming for each of their mistakes and notice every little unattractive detail of their being. You will feel like you want to get out of the relationship but there was something holding you down. You suddenly doubt that you two are meant for each other and feel some regret of having started a relationship with them. Because of these, you will have inhibitions and this will cause misunderstanding and lead to fights. Suddenly, problems arise and you will want to have an escape.

This is the difficult stage as it will test your true intentions. It is in this stage that being in love to that same person will be hard. However, if true love is what your relationship is based upon, you will overcome this stage. Otherwise, everything may end here.

The next stage is when everything starts over again. This is not the last stage, but the stage where your relationship will start once again on a more stern foundation. This time, you would not feel the same feelings you had during the first stage of love but you will feel far more wonderful warmth inside you because your relationship is now based on trust""for holding onto the relationship,""on respect""for knowing who the person really is--and on true love--for not giving up and overcoming it all.

This is the stage when you will learn how love and commitment works in a relationship, how important it is to not just let it go and how everything is more wonderful after the storm.

In this stage, you will feel contentment, real happiness, and certainty that you have found the person you will love and who will love you the same way that you do.