In Love With Fantasy? Watch Out.

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Real love does not grow in one day. According to my own understanding, it is not an overnight thing. It needs time as you need to know the other person quite well before uttering the words "i love you." Can i say i love you after i have just set my eyes on you? It is a white lie. However it is no wonder to spend a lot of time with someone and still not know him or her. There are some amazing cases where people fall in love with fantasy. This is what happened to my friend John. He was engaged to a woman of his dreams and he thought they were in love. It was shock on him when he one day decided to go visit her. It was raining outside and so he had to borrow a coat from his friend. Little did he know that the coat had the truth with it.

The coat was made of an oilskin from Australia. It is popular with the ranchers or cowboys. When he knocked the door to her house, he was welcomed by a smile he had never seen and the excitement confused him a great deal. "Here is the boy of my fantasies." These are the words that came out his fiance mouth. She was in another realm and she poured out all the beans. She exlained how she had pictured him on a horse. She was imagining he was the Malboro man. John was very disappointed to learn that all along his fiance had somebody else in mind. All the time they were dating she was cheating on him with him. The lady was in love with fantasy. Next time you hear, "you are the man of my dreams" be a little bit careful.

This is no news to relationship and dating experts. The councellors have dealt with many cases where people are in love with fantasy. They live in a world full of imaginations. People fantasize about their own love life and even love people who they do not love. The person in their life is not the person they would want to love but he/she represents the feeling and the person in their imagination. This might be a psychological problem which has hit many people. According to a recent study carried out at the University of Texas, many people fantasize a lot even when they are making love. Many have been reported to call out fantasy names at the prime of their ectasy.


There is a story told about two Hassidic men who were relaxing together. One man tells the other, "you are my best friend and i love you a lot." The other friend hesitates before replying, "you love me? them tell me what is disturbing me." If you love someone, you know them quite well and you will know what hurts them and what makes them happy. When this realization hits us, we are able to know who we love and who we use as an object of our fantasies.
It is so easy to fall in love with fantasy but do you should control your own destiny.


About the Author:
Francis K. Githinji Is An Online Dating Expert. His Latest ProjectIn Love With Fantasy Shows How The Power Of Online Dating Can Be Harnessed Internationally and With Great Success, Or You Could Post Your Valued Comments On His Blog At In Love With Fantasy



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