If Only She Smiled (asian And Online Dating Advise)

I'm surprised how some lady members submit pictures with a stoic face expecting male members to cozy up to their profile. Smile, ladies, smile!

Many male members are searching for warmth and comfort in their quest for a suitable partner. The impression an image can give is paramount in persuading the male member to read further the lady's profile. If the image does not exhibit warmth or comfort, they won't go any further than the image and click away. Time after time, I have seen an image of a lady who smiles get more profile views than an image with no smile. The smile opens the door for men to look at the lady's profile still so many ladies keep the door closed with no expression or emotion on their face.

I don't want to solely pick on ladies' pictures, but for factors I'm not sure of, my stats exhibits that lady members will examine a male profile that has an image with or without a smile. While male members almost always lean towards a smiling face when browsing profiles. Maybe gender stereotype is in play - men are suppose to look more serious than ladies so a man smiling or not smiling is not as big of a factor in how his character is perceived. I'm not sure, but after eight years of running an Asian dating site I can tell you the stats for profile views for a smiling lady compared to a non-smiling lady image is overwhelming in favor of the smiling face. So ladies, smile!

In any given day, I get more than my share of emails from members asking me for information. The first item I look at is their profile picture. If it doesn't show warmth, I tell them to replace their profile image. After the smile, clothes and accessories can be a issue in how a person will react to your profile. Even a smiling face wearing sunglasses turns a lot of members away. They say your eyes are the windows to your soul and if they can't see the expression in your eyes, they may think you are hiding something. Don't wear sunglasses.

Another accessory that may be a factor is ear rings, especially on an Asian dating site. If a lady is wearing gigantic ear rings, most men will not react positively. I'm not sure if this is the state of affairs on non-Asian sites, but most male members of an Asian dating site are searching for simplicity and huge extravagant ear rings convey the opposite of simplicity. Small and articulate ear rings seem to get more responses by men.

The clothes can attract as much versatility as there are women. A man searching for a sexy lady is going to take his clue from the clothes she wears. The same for a man who is searching for a homebody. I think the main mistake women make is overdoing it with sexy clothes. There is a fine line between looking sexy and looking the part of a street girl. I have seen more than one male member remark that he was looking for a wife, not a call girl.

Ladies, your profile image is the door way to alluring men to explore your profile. If your profile is not getting lots of views, you might want to take a look at your profile image to see if it is opening or closing the door.