Missing an ex-boyfriend is very common especially if the break up was just recent. It will make you regret the decision of breaking up with him. If you believe that the break up was a mistake and the love did not change at all, then maybe you still want to
get him back.
Having dispute in a relationship is normal. There will be a time in your relationship that both of you will not understand each other. It is in the way you handle the fights. If these differences were not settled, you might end up finishing your relationship. However, break ups does not necessarily mean that you do not love each other. It might imply that both of you needs time to think of what went wrong with the relationship.
Having fights and misunderstandings are common since each of us are unique individual. The secret to maintain a healthy relationship is how to handle the fight. When it comes in a point that you believe both sides need time to think and reflect, then maybe break up would be a good solution.
Let the situation cool down. You broke up because something went wrong with the relationship, take time to think of what went wrong.
Remember that the break up was also painful for him. So, listen to what he says. Give him a chance to explain his side and convey what he feels about the break up.
Though it is hard, try to be the friend of your ex boyfriend. Bear in mind that he is still in pain; try to be his shoulder to lean on. Get close with him without any hidden agenda.
Be consistent in what you say. Show that you are trying to help him move on and is truthful in being his friend. This will earn you his respect.
This is done by trying to apologize of what happened. If you are the one who decided to have a break up, tell him that it was irrational and stupid. Tell him that you value him too much after losing him as your partner. You may start by telling him you still want to be friends with him.
This is the deciding point to know if the plan is effective and if there will still be a chance to bring back the relationship. Once you gain his trust back, tell him that you want him back. After this, he will surely think of the possibility of being with you again, and will take his part in the break up.
