How To Win Back A Girl - Exactly What Not To Do If You Want Her Back

How To Win Back A Girl - Exactly What Not To Do If You Want Her Back

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Figuring out how to win back a girl after a breakup is much like walking through a field of land mines. There's many different ways to reach the other side, but the one thing you MUST do is avoid the mines.

In the case of relationships, the land mines are the critical mistakes that will push your ex further away if you're not careful to avoid them. Here are a few of the mistakes 95% of men make without even realizing it. Learn to avoid them and you'll be well on your way to winning her back.

Attempting To Make Your Girlfriend Feel Guilty

Most men make this mistake in one of two ways. In the first scenario, the man attempts to make his woman feel guilty by acting sad, hurt, or depressed in the hopes she will feel bad and take him back. In the second scenario, a guy will try and make his girlfriend feel guilty by bringing up mistakes she's made in the relationship in an attempt to make her feel like she owes him something.

Both methods are huge land mines. They simply make you look weak, desperate, conniving, and insecure all of which will be extremely unattractive to your girlfriend.

Doing Everything She Wants

Many women use this technique whether consciously or subconsciously to test their man's character. Women are genetically programmed to be attracted to men who lead and who make their own decisions. They want a man who will take charge and "be a man" so to speak. This is precisely why when your ex girlfriend or ex wife contacts you after a breakup, you shouldn't just rush to pick up the phone or rush over to see her.

You need to create distance and show her that you won't just give in to her every whim and you're getting back together on your own terms. Most men are so excited to hear from their ex after a breakup that they will immediately rush to her if she wants to see them. Then, the next day they are left hurt and confused when she says hanging out was a mistake.

Telling Her You'll Change

Most of the time men use this as a way to tell her what they think she wants to hear. Never tell your girlfriend you'll change unless you really mean it. However, even if you do mean it, you are far better off showing her you will change rather than telling her.

She is interested in your actions, not your words. Also, true change takes time, and she's not likely to take you back until that change is evident. As a general rule, it is best to just leave out any statements of change when trying to get your ex back because it can be seen as begging or pleading which are both turn offs to women.

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