Most men are plagued with fears about how to talk to a girl on the phone without sounding gauche, uncouth and nervous. Actually it is all a matter of self-confidence which can be boosted to a great degree and which will help you to successfully talk to any girl on the phone.
The following pointers will help you not only to sound confident but to get rid of all nervousness and fears.
Generate attraction: The simplest way to do this is to be yourself on the phone - without exaggerating and lying about who you are, your accomplishments etc. Don't sound patronizing on the phone like you are doing them a favor by calling, and at the same time don't sound like your begging.
If you are trying your best to impress her by "selling" yourself on the phone - you can be sure she's going to find you offensive and most unattractive. Instead be honest and sound like you like talking to her.
Enjoy the conversation: When you are talking to a girl on the phone don't try too hard to impress her. Instead enjoy the conversation and have fun. Imagine you are in the same room with her and talk to her like you would face to face.
Women have the uncanny knack of knowing when you are faking interest or just amusing yourself. The slightest inflection in your tone of voice speaks volumes to the trained ear - and you would be surprised just how "trained" her ear is!
Don't try to prove anything: Most men feel they have to qualify or prove themselves to be her "ideal" guy. All this serves is to convey to the girl that you think of her as a "Prize" to be won over. Keep the conversation in the zone you are comfortable with in the beginning. If you can make her laugh it is a huge point in your favor.
See that you don't get tongue-tied: There is nothing more irritating to a girl than having a conversation with a guy that is dotted with long silent gaps - it just proves that you don't have anything interesting to say and end up being the biggest bore! A girl who is expected to keep the conversation running is going to avoid your calls like the plague.
Don't run out of material and make sure you have at least six topics you can cover in hand. Give the girl a chance to air HER views. She is going to hate it if you are going to do all the talking.
Another important thing is make sure you work on your voice and tone. A low pitched voice sounds sexy and exciting. Learn to use your voice to have maximum effect on the person at the other end of the phone. A high pitched shrill voice can be extremely irritating.
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