How To Pick Up Women (really)

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So let's say you're a man. And you want to know how to pick up women. And maybe you've read a few books about it, even seen some of those goofy how to pick up women e-books for sale.

But most of it seems like BS to you, and the whole how to pick up women idea sounds pretty high-schoolish to you. After all, you're a man, and you'd probably like to meet a woman for a real relationship with some fun adventures along the way.

Should you learn how to pick up women? No. What you should learn is how to create attraction with women, which is a vastly different skill. See, when you learn the skill of attraction (and it IS a skill learnable by any man), women will actually start to approach you first for a date, no matter your looks, age or income.

Women can actually sense a man who's mastered the skill of attraction'you just give off a certain 'vibe' they pick up on. Not so much with guys who spend all their time trying to learn how to pick up women, they give off a different vibe, a more desperate one.

Understand this: women WANT to feel attraction around men. They want to feel chills in their spine, want to feel butterflies in their stomach. And when you make them feel that wonderful feeling of attraction (what women call 'chemistry') they will do anything to be with you.

But when you try to pick up women, all of that changes. In that case, women feel objectified, like they're pawns in a game, or a way for lesser men to keep score with their lesser buddies.

So, how to pick up women is out, and learning the skill of attraction is in. Strangely, attraction is a simple skill to learn, although it appears to be difficult because no one, nowhere teaches it.
Attraction comes down to this: engaging in a certain set of male behavior that creates attraction, and avoiding those behaviors that kill it.

What creates attraction? A naughty, funny, sarcastic, teasing persona, that switches over to strength, authority, and seriousness. What kills attraction? Whining, jealousy, possessiveness, sensitivity, being a nice guy, being a pushover, being available, trying to win a woman's favor with compliments and gifts and so on and so forth.

If you really want to attract women, forget the whole how to pick up women thing, that's for choads and losers. Do what MEN do, learn the skill of attraction, and put it to use wherever you go.


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