How To Pick Up A Beautiful Woman: Eradicating Self-limiting Beliefs

How To Pick Up A Beautiful Woman: Eradicating Self-limiting Beliefs

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Take an athlete for example, regardless of their chosen discipline, they must WORK at becoming the best. Even if they got lucky with their genes, have a good build or quick reactions, it is absolutely vital they learn, understand and PRACTICE whatever sport it is they want to master. If they dont, they will never be number one, or even anywhere close. The very same principle applies to attracting and seducing women, quite simply, the looks or assets you were or werent blessed with naturally mean nothing if you cannot master the psychological side of the game. For example, theres a guy who looks like Brad Pitts better looking long-lost brother, his body, hair and dress-sense are all flawless. But, when he opens his mouthnothing. His attitude, personality and character fall completely flat and instantly put off every woman in the room. Hes gone from being a mysterious, handsome stranger, to an unexciting and tedious guy, whos good for nothing except looking at and admiring which gets very boring, very fast. Now, the reverse. Theres a guy who doesnt immediately stand out of the crowd because of what he looks or dresses like or because of the car hes just rolled up in. Women are fairly neutral towards him, they neither feel attracted to him or turned off. Then, he talks and its like a fire has been lit, hes fun, charming and great to be around in short, massively attractive.

If you want to be that first guy, I dont know what to suggest, except perhaps painful, expensive surgery. But if youd rather resemble the second man (as any sane guy would), you need to do something a little different you need to eradicate self-limiting beliefs. Self-limiting beliefs are the internal thoughts and feelings that hold you back and restrict your ability to succeed. Theyre irrational and counter-productive thoughts that everyone has, but very few people try to get rid of which is why so few men are truly successful with women. Here are a couple of examples of self-limiting beliefs:

1. Nah, shes too good-looking. She wouldnt be interested in a guy like me.

2. Women can sense inexperience and wont give a guy the time of day if they think hes not sophisticated or experienced.

3. Girls only want sex with strings attached and would never consider sleeping with me unless I have money or a powerful job.

4. That girls way too popular just look at the guys who are already all over her. Shes rejecting them so would definitely say no to me.

The crazy thing with self-limiting beliefs is that they only restrict YOU and you alone. They do this because they are not logical, true facts that are widely accepted as fundamental truths. Theyre manifested in your mind because you feel nervous and apprehensive its your bodys way of protecting itself, just like it would have thousands of years ago to stop you getting into physical danger. These days, the only danger is that you miss a golden opportunity to hook up with a great, sexy girl. Here are 3 simple rules to always remember, use them to get rid of self-limiting beliefs.

Rule 1. Ground yourself in the present and dont think about the past or potential future. If youre in a bar looking at a girl from afar, forget about times gone by that you cocked up a first impression. Furthermore, dont try to predict what could go wrong or awry. Your goal, of meeting and getting together with a hot female, is a positive one so keep all thoughts before, during and after meeting her positive, too.

Rule 2. Dont let other people mould your perception of yourself and the situation youre in. Forget about the guys around you, all trying to impress girls and assert themselves as alpha males. When you show a care-free, easy-going attitude to how to move, talk and behave you become infinitely more attractive to women than all the men who are blatantly trying too hard.

Rule 3. Let negative thoughts and phrases, like those above, slip completely from your consciousness. Looks, wealth and social status mean little when they arent accompanied by a strong, attractive persona and personality. Let your words and confident body language take precedence and forget all about superficial possessions and all-too-common good looks.

About the Author:

W. Wilcox is the author of HypnoDate . a revolutionary manual that teaches men how to use special hypnotic principles to become masters of attraction and seduction, without the need for good looks, money or a flash car.
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