How To Go Up To Groups Of Women You Don't Know, And Make Them Think You Are Great!

How To Go Up To Groups Of Women You Don't Know, And Make Them Think You Are Great!

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For this example I am going to use women at a bar. I'll be going into numerous other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for the time being, well concentrate on this. In fact, I suggest you try the top places for picking up women that aren't bars they are definately better than ANY bar and youll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.

As you know, women dont usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.

Approaching a group of women can be rather daunting and if you dont know what youre doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can tear you to shreads. Ive witnessed guys get sworn at, ignored totally and even drinks thrown over them.

But if you do the approach CORRCT, then your attempts with a group of women can usually get you terrific results.

Whenever I suggest approaching girls in groups I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though Im off my head. I know that lots of guys probably dont have the initial confidence to just walk up to attractive girls they do not know. Dont worry, this is solved easily. I will give you some simple tips.

If you have got a major confidence problem then do not worry, there's an advanced 155-page E-book available called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing your confidence with girls and it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it doesnt matter how shy you are, these methods WILL work for you. It is well worth a read.

INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a girls eye, smile more often than not, she will smile back. To start with you can do this just with female shop employees. Even if they dont WANT to smile back, they probably will. It is good practice.

Step 2. Once youve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other girls there. Im not suggesting fake smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. Most women will smile back.

Step 3. Here is where it might seem a little odd, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make it easier. Just say Hi with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you go around. It may feel HORRIBLE at the beginning if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or so, it will get easier.

Once youve smiled and said "Hi" to 20 to 30 women, you should start to feel good (so long as you dont give up on your first negative response it will happen and will happen when youre approaching girls to pick them up you MUST learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

I know someone who did the smile at girls technique and he actually ended up meeting the woman of his dreams and 3 years later, they're still together hows that for effective!

Right, let us assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach girls you dont know in a bar. Again, I dont just suggest trying to meet women, in a bar, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar I think it is everyday places where you are not competing with other single guys.

Firstly, let us suppose two women are sat together at a bar. One is the ugly one and one is the hot one! Go up to them and talk to them STRAIGHT AWAY! DO NOT waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, go up to them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

If you see her and like her, its best not to think too much about the approach, or youre more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you will just chicken out altogether!

ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. NEVER from behind IMPORTANT!!! If you approach the group at the bar from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side.

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If you would like to know what to do next or want more tips on the best ways to approach women, read my review of the Guy Gets Girl eBook on my website.

For my review of HypnoDate, please go to HypnoDate Review.



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