How To Flirt With Women And Not Look Like A Fool

One of things that I get from other guys is that they sometimes feel like a fool when they are flirting with women. True, it can put you in a place where you feel like you are on stage and that she is noticing everything about you, and this can make you feel a bit put off or self conscious, but you need to really re-frame the situation and realize that usually the woman feels just as much like she is on stage as the guy does.

Only difference is, most of the time, it's her body that is on show as most guys will stare at her figure while they are talking with her.

When you flirt with a woman and you don't want to look like a fool, then you have to keep things in perspective.

You have to remember that nothing really matters that much, all you are trying to do is have some fun and get a little something going with her.

Most of the pressure that you will feel comes from you and you can easily take away that pressure just by deciding to have a good time when you are flirting with a woman and not even give a second thought to what she might think or whether or not she is judging you.

Here are some tips for flirting with women that might make things easier for YOU:

1. Keep eye contact with her but keep it natural. Nothing could be worse than a guy that stares at a woman in that creepy and crazy way. Even if you are not creepy, that's the impression that she is going to get. But if you don't keep eye contact with her, then you are going to seem a bit passive. It's a little balance, but you have to keep that eye contact going with her.

2. Start to build and then increase her attraction for you. Most guys start out the gate way too fast with a woman and then they lose it. They don't know where to take it from there. You have to know how to build attraction with a woman and then escalate it so that she begins to really want you. Just flirting with a woman is not going to get you what you want in the end. You have to be able to take it a bit deeper and make her feel anticipation for YOU.


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