How To Catch A Cheating Spouse

Do you suspect your spouse is cheating on you? Do you have that nagging feeling that just wont go away? Do you wonder how you can spy and catch a cheating spouse?

Before we go to the tips on how to catch a cheating spouse or lover may it be boyfriend or girlfriend, let us have a quick run through on the statistics of cheating and infidelity.

According to Associated Press,

22 percent of married men have strayed at least once during their married lives.
14 percent of married women have had affairs at least once during their married lives.
Younger people are more likely candidates; in fact, younger women are as likely as younger men to be unfaithful.
70 percent of married women and 54 percent of married men did not know of their spouses' extramarital activity.
5 percent of married men and 3 percent of married women reported having sex with someone other than their spouse.
22 percent of men and 14 percent of women admitted to having sexual relations outside their marriage sometime in their past.
17 percent of divorces in the United States are caused by infidelity

So you have that inkling your loved one may be having an affair and your spouse is cheating on you. But what are some of the signs that your suspicion may be true? According to Cheating-Spouse.org, listed below are some of the 10 common symptoms of cheaters generally exhibit whether they are aware of it or not. And no matter how hard they may try to cover up some things just cannot be held back.

1.When they no longer want sex or makes excuses not having sex.

2.When they will not allow you access to their computer or they suddenly shut down the computer when you walk into the room. They may password protect their laptop or computer to keep out suspicious eyes. Or they stay up to "work" or "play a game" on the computer after you go to bed. Excessive internet usage, especially late at night, is a red flag.

3.When they begin to put distance between you or show a lack of interest in what has been the routine with few, if any, excuses for the change in their behavior.

4.When they suddenly have to work late and have all kinds of new obligations that take them away from home repeatedly or for long periods of time. Or. . . they tell you they are working longer hours and discontinue allowing you to view their paycheck or pay stubs.

5.If your loved one works with people, such as at a bar or restaurant especially as a waitress or bartender they might suddenly tell you not to visit them at work. This usually means they are hiding something at their workplace whether it is with a co-worker or a regular customer such as at a bar.

6.When they suddenly need a cell phone or pager and you are discouraged from ever looking at it or using it. They also may make certain their cell phone or pager cannot be answered by you by hiding it or taking it with them wherever they go. They are secretive about their cell phone or pager bill and pay it themselves when you have always paid the bill in the past.

7.When they arrive home and head straight into the shower or bath.

8.When they suddenly begin to treat you extremely nice; more so than usual. Simple trips, such as to the grocery store or bank, take hours rather than the time it should take.

9.When they get mysterious phone calls or when they hurry to answer the phone, leave the room to talk on the phone and when you ask who called, they say, "No one", "Wrong number", or "Why do you care?"

10.When you notice that they are reluctant to kiss you or accept your affection.

So, do you think your spouse is cheating on you? But how will you spy and get the proof that you need?

Catching a cheating spouse is not as easy as it sounds. However, many cheaters leave tracks, like on a computer or a cell phone. If you have an overwhelming feeling that your husband or your wife is cheating on you, dont let worry consume you. Instead, get answers to clear your mind. And certainly you can with a few of spy gadgets outline below.

1.Spy Camera

These devices are functioning digital cameras and video recorders, but you would not be able to tell. The camera is hidden in a small pinhole, the reason for the name. Most husbands and wives resort to following to catch the cheating spouse which is a risky and inefficient way of spying. It is then recommended to opt for wearable devices. You can buy baseball caps, sunglasses, cell phones, watches, backpacks, purses, pens and almost anything that your partner usually use with pinhole cameras or video recorder inside.

2.Hidden Audio Recorders
As with hidden spy digital cameras and video recorders, audio recorders come in different formats. You can buy them in common items such as pens, sunglasses, mp3 players and common household items. Your best option is to purchase a small handheld audio recorder. By opting for a small device with a large storage disk, you can hide the device in your cheating spouses car or any unsuspecting place to capture their conversation.


3.GPS Tracking
You can also spy your cheating spouse using a GPS tracking device. Using GPS tracking device allows you to see where the car is or where it has been. You can check if your cheating spouse is where they said they will be or where they were. You can also verify if your spouse is visiting the same house after work. Using GPS is relatively an easy way to catch your cheating spouse. There is a little risk and work involved. You do not have to follow them. You just sit at your computer and watch.

4.Cell Phone Spy Calls
You can also spy and catch your cheating spouse through mobile phone. With cell phone spy software you can track calls both calls made and received by your spouse, record and listen to the actual calls, retrieve and read SMS and track locations.


5.Computer Spy Software
Computer spy software is a surveillance tool that allows you to silently and secretly see, monitor and record your cheating spouses online activities. After installing it on the computer, it enables you to record keystrokes, e-mails sent and received, chat conversations, passwords, websites visited, and capture screen shots at intervals you set and deliver this information through your e-mail. All information that will be gathered in real-time and you can now easily and remotely spy your cheating spouse's online and offline activities.

The above mentioned gadgets can easily help you spy and catch a cheating spouse. With that said, the key is to use these devices properly. Dont draw unwanted attention to yourself. Since most must follow to catch a cheating spouse, opt for a disguise. If you are walking around with a digital camera or camcorder, play the look of a tourist. Throw on a baseball cap, pair of sunglasses, and tourist shirt, available for sale at most gift shops. Your spouse and those passing by will just assume you are a tourist, not a spy with a purpose.