How To Approach A Woman Naturally

The way to make yourself feel uncomfortable is by trying to chat up a girl using a line that you heard from someone else that sounds funny to them but to many girls would be distasteful. It is a completely unnatural thing to do and a simple hello will work just as well if not better. So just calm down and take a breath.

Opening Line

The most important thing is realising if a girl wants you to approach her. It will not make a difference how good an opening line you have if you start to talk to a girl that doesn't want to know you. Not only is it bad for your confidence, other girls in the bar will notice you going up to girls and getting rejected. Trust me, they will notice and it is not an impressive sign. You could alienate your chances of getting to know any girl in the bar if you are constantly getting rejected.

Don't Send Out The Wrong Signals - Be Relaxed

Before you start thinking about the girls signals that she is sending out, look at yours. You need to be open, smiley and looking comfortable. If you don't then you will be sending out bad signals and girls won't even start to think about getting to know you. Don't overstate your actions either, just stay relaxed and keep yourself from bunching up and crossing your arms. This is a defensive posture and will not help you look like you know what you are doing.

Maintain Eye Contact & Smile

If you do make eye-contact with any girls that you like then make sure you flash your pearly whites and let her know that you are smiling at her. She will love this and more often than not you will get a smile back. This is always a good start; just remember that she may be moving around so if she is walking near you then try to let her see you checking her out. Don't make any dirty gestures or overstated looks that make her feel like a piece of meat. Just let her know you like what you see.

Be Natural

When you have started to look natural with your approach and your smile, you can start to think about what signals she is sending back to you. Glancing looks don't hold much promise unless they are backed up with a genuine smile and an intent gaze. Think about where you are sitting because if she is sitting almost opposite you then you are naturally going to catch the odd glance at each other. To check to see if it is worth approaching a girl when you do glance at each other hold the gaze and smile at her. If she gives you a warm response and holds the eye-contact briefly then you know you are onto a winner. When she doesn't smile or looks away quickly don't give her another thought. She just isn't interested for whatever reason.

Finally

You will find that when you start to master your body language you will increase the chances of a girl wanting to get to know you greatly. When you find girls that are not going to bat you away the conversation will be more free flowing and won't feel uncomfortable.