He Wants To Date Other People! How To Get Your Boyfriend Devoted To You Again

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He wants to date other people. The moment your boyfriend said that you felt the future you imagined being torn away from you. You couldnt believe your ears. The last thing you want is to see anyone else. How can you even consider it given how much you love him, right? He obviously sees things very differently than you do. You have to do whatever you can to try and salvage the relationship. The problem is that unless you do the right things at the right time you may cause even more emotional distance between the two of you and the relationship will be over for good.

The normal reaction youre likely to have when he says he wants to see other people is to fight him about it. Youre going to feel envious, rejected and angry. Essentially what your boyfriend is telling you is that hes not happy with you so he needs to see what else is out there. Theres absolutely no way that wont hurt. You have to process that pain though and then pick your heart up off the ground and get to work changing his mind in a very subtle and specific way.

As hard as it is going to be when he tells you that you two need a break so you can date others, agree with him. Naturally, youre not going to feel this is a positive step, but its actually the best reaction you can have. First and foremost, by not falling apart emotionally and begging him to reconsider, youre showing him how strong and resilient you are. Hell be blown away by this and actually very confused.

By agreeing with him about seeing other people youre also sending him a subtle message that youre going to do the same thing. What you may not realize right at this moment is that your boyfriend hasnt given any thought at all to the idea of you dating other men. Hes selfishly been considering what it will be like for him to see other women. The moment he realizes that you may just start getting to know another guy hell rethink his decision.

Once youve told him that youre okay with the idea of seeing others, give him some space. Dont call him up every day asking if hes dating. Dont go to the same night spots as he does hoping to catch him with another woman. If you do anything like that youll be undermining your plan to get him back. You must appear to not really care whats going on with him. Your ignoring him is ultimately what will draw him back because hell see that youre perfectly fine without him.

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