The society you grew up in has this traditional yet archaic notion that a guy should be "nice" to be acceptable to others, especially to girls. Today's lifestyle brought on a myriad of changes in outlook and perception that made being "nice" not merit a more than adequate rating with girls. How could this be? Do girls really prefer "bad" guys?
For clarification "bad" guys are not those men who beat up or abuse women. The term is loosely used to connote men who are more laid back, cool and awesome. In reality, being labeled "nice" is a complement. However, the saying that "nice guys finish last" may also hold some truth in it. Here are the reasons why.
Being too nice makes you a target by mean people. Learn to say no. There are people who would always take advantage of your being nice. Some women are turned off by such display of "weakness" which, in reality is not really a flaw. Don't go out of your way to please other people. The world will continue to spin even if you say no.
Nice guys have unrealistic expectations. Don't set the bar too high! You are only human and also susceptible to errors. Don't let your life hang on a balance. Go out and have some fun! Life is too short for you to dwell on what can't be. Be more realistic for girls to like you.
Women are just women. Don't worship them. Women are just like you and the rest of the human race. They eat, sleep, commit mistakes and are not perfect. A woman is no worse or better than you. Keep this in mind as no self respecting woman could revere or value you if you don't have a high opinion of yourself.
Live for yourself and not for anyone else. This is not saying that you should not mind other people at all. It is suggested however that you think of yourself first, for a change. If you live for the others and not for yourself then you would ultimately become uninteresting and who cares for a boring person?
You don't need others to make something of yourself or to make you happy. No man is an island. This is true. You need to interact with others too as you live in a communal world. However if you put your happiness in the hands of a single person, then that is wrong and a definite turn off for girls.
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