Guys Don't Find Me Attractive - What Do I Do?

What do you do now? Your self esteem has been crushed numerous times. You often wonder why of all the people in the world you are one of those unattractive. Well, cheer up! Here are 5 tips on how to make you attractive to guys:

Change Your Thoughts. Change Your Beliefs. You have become your worst enemy believing that you are unattractive. It is advisable to change your story. Try the practice of facing a mirror while saying, "I am beautiful." There has been a test with some HIV carriers who have lost their belief in life repeating this sentence everyday while looking at one's image. In a matter of days, the practice made some changes in the health of the patients and how they value themselves. Whether you have an illness or not, the way you talk to yourself would affect how people would look at you. Let go of your inner critics. Notice the synchronicities that would occur in 30 days. If you do not pay attention, you would miss compliments here and there.

Associate with Self-confident Friends. Apparently, the confidence of who you mingle with will rub on to you. They are there to support you. Take advantage of the energy that they are releasing to help you in facing your own demons. If you have no friends who are confident, it is time to move on. If you have the budget, try working with a personal coach to assist you in boosting your morale.

Dress to Attract. Remember to attract, not to please women, men. In Feng Shui, the common premise suggested is to wear clothes which accentuate your best assets. Do not forget to factor in where you are going though. Make sure you dress appropriately if you are heading to your work. Wear bright colored clothes for romance like pink, red, yellow and orange. Choose skirts rather than pants for feminine touch. Majority of men prefers long shiny hair and polished nails. Walk with confidence. It takes practice but feel proud for being the unique you. Can you imagine that there is only one you among billions of people?

Be Joyful. Have you ever heard the saying, "there is something about her?" Usually, enthusiasm makes a big difference. Stop brooding about your situation. Start living your life and pursue your interest. If you love dancing, take dance lessons. Go for a short vacation. Explore nature by taking walks by the beach or hiking in the forest. Laugh often. You become attractive when you are happy.

Work Your Passion. If you have the luxury to move to a career related to something you are more inclined to, do so. There is nothing more attractive than a woman who is passionate about her job. This builds your confidence and boosts your ego. If it would be tough to make any changes, try to look for apprenticeships or volunteer opportunities. For instance, if you like pets, look for animal shelters that would entertain help. You can do it as part time or as a volunteer. Either way, immerse yourself into what you like. Your passion will change your energy in the way you project yourself, as well as the way you speak.

You have only one life to live, therefore, live it. Start loving yourself and the rest would follow - including attracting men. Embrace being attractive in and out. Try implementing these 5 tips on how to attract men and celebrate your mini-successes along the way. If you are single and still wondering how you can find your true love, visit http://www.manifestingmydestiny.com for e-tips, blogs and dating articles.