How many times our children get scared from a nightmare they had and run to us to give them a feeling of protection and we just lead them back to bed and ask them to forget about and keep telling them its just imagination , its just dream, its not real! How many times our children try to tell us about their dreams and we don’t listen and just in end we say "that’s a good dream it means you will do good at school!", but is it really true that children dreams are less important then adult dream?
Well if the child dreams that a giant robot machine is chasing him, that doesn’t mean its something real and we should consider it, but during our sleep our inner mind is affected by our awake life and our subconscious mind sends messages to our outer mind in form of dream and in children the link between their subconscious and conscious mind is very active ,usually children believe in their dreams ,that is why they remember all the details of the dream and get scared if they had nightmare and happy if they get a happy dream. We should not let this link between their subconscious and conscious mind get smaller.
What is the benefit of giving attention to our children dreams?
When parents give more attention to their children dreams, that helps them to know more about their own children. Since children usually dream about things going around their mind , clever parents could figure out if their child is relaxed, worried, unhappy, afraid or hopeless ….children dreams would be like a mirror reflecting the inner mind of the child. Many times the children even dream the exact scenario of what happened to them during awaking life.
What are the steps the parents should do?
It would be advisable that parents know how to interpret and understand their own dreams, so they can also teach their own children, that helps the child to know more about his situation , his feeling and maybe the feeling about the future. Parents always have to let the child feel he is welcome to talk about his dreams and that the parents willing to help find the meaning or help him to find out the meaning by himself. There Basic questions parents could try ,for example, in morning before the children forget their dreams, parents could ask their children if they remember their dreams and what was it about ,what did they felt? These type of questions helps children when they get older to give more attention to their dreams and try to figure out their dreams messages.
In the end I would like also to advise the parents to encourage their children to try to find out the solution of their awaking life by dreams, its so powerful technique and many received good results of it. Lets next time give more time and we really listen when our child come to us trying to tell us about his dream.
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