Get Your Ex - Girlfriend Back - Romance Versus Attraction

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When you want to get your girlfriend back, one of the most common things to try is to sweep her off her feet and back into your life with romance. This sounds like it would work like magic, but how many guys have seemed to have done all of the RIGHT things to romantically bring back their ex-girlfriend, only to see their efforts fail? More than a few. The reasons for this are somewhat counter to what you might expect, but you HAVE to be aware of them.

There is a big difference between trying to bring her back through romance versus attraction.

A woman does not necessarily feel the same pull from a man just because he is romantic with her. You might assume that this would somehow prove to her that you are the right one for her, but if she does not feel that attraction, the romance will be nice, but not appealing enough for her to come back to you.

Do you assume that the attraction must still be there?

This is a big faux pas that many guys make. They assume because they had been in a relationship with a woman and that she did feel attraction, that she still does. If she has broken up with you, then you can safely assume that a lot of that attraction is now gone. And it is your job to bring it back. Otherwise, you can light all the candles that you want, and buy her flowers, but it still won't feel "right" to her.

And it has to feel right for her to come back to you.

So, how would you bring that attraction back? You have to think like you did before she became your girlfriend. You have to do those little things to make her eyes light up when she sees you. You have to make her feel excitement at the sound of your name. This is how she has to feel before you can bring the romance back.

What are YOU going to do?

Let's be honest. Most guys are stubborn and they WON'T go back to treating their ex the way they did in the beginning. You don't want to get stuck in that way of thinking. You want to make her want to be back with you, so that you CAN sweep her off her feet with romance. You have to know HOW to trigger her attraction so that she starts to want to be with you again.


Copyright (c) 2010 C Tyler


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