Ditching Predictability
Maybe if Scott weren't such a first-rate hubby, I wouldn't be so lazy about nurturing our connection. I mean, he eats my veal parm even though he's lactose intolerantif that isn't a sign of a smitten man, what is? But according to Davidson, a wife who assumes things will always be okay is asking for trouble. That's why Tigeresque traumas are good for the rest of us: They're crass, flashy reminders that fidelity is fragile.
If I want us to thrive, I need to think back to the beginning of our relationship and then spend time with Scott in ways that recall those unpredictable, exciting first months. "Science says the trick to keeping a man hungry for your love is to feed his brain sumptuous portions of startle," says Davidson. Um, okay So how do you do that?
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...And Panties Too
When we were single and chasing each other, Scott liked to get busy 011 the beach, and I was game. Now, a stretch of sand makes me crinkle my nose. It looks so itchy, I think. Ariel I shouldn't have worn Spanx under my dress.When I mention that last part to 1 Davidson, she suggests I forgo panties of any kind and toss Scott, a blanket, and a bottle of bubbly 011 the living room floor ASAP. "I want you to lass, sip, lass, sip," she says, "until the only question in your mind is why you didn't do this earlier." Consider it done.
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Newness, above all else, is key when relationships tire weighed down by routine, novelty can act as a buoy. "Marriages don't fall apart overnight," says Jill Spiegel, author of Hon; to Talk to Anyone About Anything! "They unravel by tiny degrees when a couple fails to thrill and surprise each other."
Every wife knows the world is full of men who stray, but what we tend to forget is that we also know what will turn our husbands 011 before anyone else does. We have the advantage, and celeb affairs arc just the thing we need to help us remember to wield it.
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