Don't You Think It Is Time To Start To Communicate With Confidence?

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If you would like to communicate with confidence, then you should know that you will need to win some small victories in the beginning. Within this article, we are going to give you some techniques that will help you get the edge you need to have in order to communicate with confidence.

In the beginning, you should not start any response or conversations with immediate personal discounters or hedging phrases. These small fillers are going to give the individuals the impression that you are hiding behind the words and you are refusing to commit. They will also have the power to cancel out whatever you are going to be saying next.

Here are some examples:

"I just wanted to say..."
"I'm not exactly sure if I am right, but..."
"I don't know about this but..."
"This will more than likely be a dumb question..."

Above are some common phrases that you should obviously not use. When you first start to communicate with someone, you should confidently state the point. There is no need to throw in those extra words.

When you are about to start out a conversation, you should use some self-disclosure openings. The self-disclosure openings will help to ease your communication apprehension. Below are some examples of self-disclosure openings:

"Hi, I do not know anyone in here!"
"This is the first time I have ever gotten the chance to come here."
"I have never gotten the chance to travel to Florida before."

If you are looking to communicate with confidence, then you should always avoid the word "interested". Interested does not have the persuasion and confidence of "willing". The word interested is using a more active language simply because it has removed an "-ing" suffix from that sentence.

As an example, which questions sound more confident?

"Ariela, would you be interested in giving me your email address?"
"Ariela, Would you be willing to give me your email?"

We would like to ask you this...

What is the best confidence builder for you? Think about it long and hard and tell yourself the answer.

When you are communicating with someone, or a group of individuals, you should have confidence in yourself as you are speaking. Just let yourself relax and be free from all of the fears of saying the wrong thing. Sure, you should watch what you are saying and never put anyone down, but you will need to feel relaxed. As you are communicating with someone, you should smile. The more you smile, the more attention you will be showing to the other individual. You should be more emotional and use your mimics.

Remember, you already have everything you need in order to communicate with others and with just a little practice, you will be able to communicate with confidence.


About the Author:
Lisa Dyke has put together The Mind Training Series which is a high quality range of self hypnosis audio programmes, for more information on curing the fear of public speaking please visit http://www.public-speaking-confidence.com



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