Do You Really Need A Divorce Lawyer?

There are some problems, usually of a criminal nature, that absolutely demand representation from a lawyer. For other issues there is some gray area where professional legal representation would be a good thing but not entirely necessary for a satisfactory outcome. Divorce is one such issue. It isn't a requirement to have a divorce lawyer in order to successfully file for and obtain a divorce. In some very simple divorce cases, one may be wise to save the money and go for a do-it-yourself divorce. How do you know if yours is one of those simple divorces or if you really do need professional representation?

1.If your partner has a lawyer, get one to represent you as well. Divorce isn't a simple thing. There are some very complex procedures and laws and you need to even the odds to avoid an outcome that is not equitable. At the very least, hire an experienced divorce lawyer to review any proposed agreements before you sign on to them.

2.If you have children and there are any custody or child support disagreements, get a lawyer. This is a highly emotional issue with battles that can go on for years. An experienced family law attorney will protect your parental rights by presenting a strong case to the court on your behalf.

3.If you have significant assets, it's a good idea to have the representation of an attorney. A divorce lawyer will make sure that assets are identified in full and divided fairly. Support payments, if they apply, will be negotiated fairly as well. If you have been married for ten years or more, retirement accounts are also subject to being divided equally which can be a legally complicated matter.

4.If communication has broken down between you and your partner or if your partner is dominating, you will be wise to not try to deal with your partner yourself but rather let your lawyer do the negotiating. Exhaustion and frustration can move you to make unwise decisions or concessions just to make the problem go away. Putting it into the hands of your lawyer will ensure that emotions don't get in the way of a fair resolution.

Every situation is different and only you can make the decision about whether a divorce attorney is needed or unnecessary. If you've only been married a short time and there are no children or joint property or debt issues, doing it on your own is not an unwise choice. For all others, at least get any agreements reviewed by a divorce lawyer before you commit to them.