Do You Find Yourself Overcompensating In Order To Seduce A Woman?

Do You Find Yourself Overcompensating In Order To Seduce A Woman?

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All of us have an idea, albeit a vague one, of why were on this planet and what it is we should do during this life. Im not refering to religious beliefs or any "grand scheme" or anything. Im refering to the reality we know were in. Were higher primates, a species that have evolved over an incredibly long length of time to have large brains and opposable thumbs, which is a dangerous combination! Our advanced cooperative and cognitive abilities have allowed us to create massive civilisations, packed with technology. This technology has in turn enabled us to further develop our intelligence and social skills. Were a species that is attatched to the rocket of progression.

Its 40 years since we first planted a flag on the moon. Now were looking at what Mars has to offer! However, regardless of all of the gizmos we have, the countless cities we have built and the vast ammount of knowledge weve pushed into our brains, into books and onto the internet, were STILL just naked apes with only two unchanging, fundamental goals in life: stay alive and reproduce. It might not feel like that, but the 360,000 new arrivals born into the world each and every day testify to the unavoidable fact: we like to find mates and have babies with them. People have goals in life, all kinds of goals. This guy wants to be a teacher, this girl wants to travel the world, this fellow wants little more than to start his own business. Whatever someones goals are, it is safe to assume that the single goal they share with most other people is to get together with a member of the opposite sex and build a relationship with them.

So how does that bring us to the subject of attracting women? Well, it was important to establish two things, two facts. First, we are basically animals with identical biological goals other animals have. Second, we have come a long way from the jungle. Although we're clever apes, we are also clever people. This is why many men struggle to seduce women. They have always had the same goals, but now theyre playing a game on a different field with different rules. This is why, on any given Friday or Saturday night, a whole host of men overcompensating in order to seduce women. They overcompensate in body language and behaviour.

They attempt to do what they believe it takes to impress women but they go too far. For example, in their minds they know that women respect and find attractive men who are physically strong. So, what do they do? They overcompensate by puffing their chests out and swaggering about like theyre on the war path, and flex their muscles to show off their strength. In their minds they know that women find men who are respected by other men attractive. So, they overcompensate by being overbearing to other men. They intimidate other males as a way of establishing a hierarchy. The make the loudest noises and the most flamboyant displays, they need women to notice this. Finally, men know in their minds that women like men who are confident and unafraid of them, so they overcompensate by pinching them as they walk past or going up to them and making crude remarks.

The lesson here is that even though males and females have pretty much the same goals theyve always had, the process of achieving them is different these days, its more complicated. Too many men think that the best way to attract women is to concentrate on the qualities they know women historically want, strength, leadership, etc. They exaggerate these until they get the desired results. This is a flawed strategy and one you should avoid. Instead you must aim to display and demonstrate desirable qualities through modern, socially-accepted behaviours.

For example, a man who overcompensates might try to show that he is an alpha male by being overbearing towards other men. He might subtly (or not so subtly) put another man down in the womans presence. This is overcompensation and the woman will instantly notice this. A man who knows how to seduce women, however, would choose a much more modern, socially-accepted way to show that he is a leader. He may bring the woman into his large group of friends or tell her a story that demonstrates that he possesses leadership qualities. Its the carrot or the stick approach. Women prefer to be drawn into your world, not dragged into it.

Youll notice that women with weak personalities or fragile egos will respond to men who overcompensate more than those with stronger identities. As a man, its best to aim for the upper end of the market. So, when it comes to displaying confident body language, demonstrating that youre a leader, showing that youre experienced and doing all the other things you know in your gut men need to do to seduce a woman, do not overcompensate.

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