Discipline Part Iii

Discipline Part Iii

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We often hear stories of overnight successes. Men and women who seemingly
take a meteoric rise to fame, fortune and high achievement. Their stories, it
would appear, are the stuff that fairy tales are made of. They wished it, and
abracadabra! Everything that they wanted to be; have, or do was manifested in
their lives. I am sure however, that if we were to interview any of them they
would tell you of the many years of toil, sacrifice and painstaking hard work it
took for them to achieve their goals. They would tell you of the many hours of
toiling in the back office, sweating in the gym, driving those lonely miles between
sales calls, and burning the midnight oil. Cumulative effort that overtime
eventually paid off.
Today we live in a microwave society. We have become accustomed to having
everything at our fingertips. Fast food, quick cash and instant gratification quickly
becoming a way of life and more and more, I've noticed that so many of us are
seeking the kind of success that is served up like the latest offering of our
microwave dinners. The dilemma for those microwave dream chasers is that
success continues to elude them and will continue to do so until they
acknowledge that in the same way it takes time to prepare a good meal, it takes
time to create successful results. It does not necessarily have to be an
inordinately long time but it does take time and through focus we are able to pay
the price up front in the form of the hard currency of time and effort.
Focus is paying the price
The highly disciplined person is focused. They understand that there is a price to
be paid to live the life of their dreams and achieve their goals. They also
understand that that price is represented by the intensity of their focus and so
they don't allow themselves to be caught up in the "What"...the things they need
to do but rather they concentrate on the "Why"...the benefits they will derive
from doing the "what". The Olympic athlete knows that total and complete
fixation on the goal is what is absolutely necessary if he or she is going have the
opportunity to march in the Opening Ceremony let alone make it up on the medal
podium. They do not focus on the "What".... the sore aching muscles, the hot
sweaty gym, the numerous drills; they focus on the "Why".... the elation of
marching in the opening ceremony...the jubilation of standing on the podium, the
personal satisfaction of achievement through SUSTAINED effort.
John Naber, the famous US Olympian puts it this way "The Olympian views each
day of practice, each party unattended, each distraction withstood or temptation
resisted as part of the price gladly paid to experience that wonderful feeling when
the national anthem is played. The Olympics require a concrete investment of
effort prior to the weeks leading up to the actual competition. You can't cram for
the Olympics during the three weeks leading to the opening ceremony the way
you study for college midterm anymore than you can rescue a business
relationship after months of neglect with one phone call. There is an
understanding that the prize must be paid for in advance."
I know this doesn't apply to you but I am sure that that there is someone you
knew, who, while in college deferred studying for an exam until the night before.
Maybe it became a habit for them and although they may have ended up with a
degree, chances are they may not have received an education. They shortchanged
themselves, failing to truly reap the full benefits of their college experience. How
many times, because of a lack of focus have you shortchanged yourself in life
because you deferred the hard work that was necessary? How often have you
chosen to focus on stress relieving activities, committing those six or so daily
errors in judgment that we discussed in the last issue instead of practicing those
six or so goal achieving activities?
Focus is keeping track of your time and activities
In order to get to the Olympic Games the athlete knows that he or she must work
out every day. They have made that commitment and they have a tool that helps
them to determine and track what is that they need to do and when it should be
done. It is called a training program and it tells them exactly what it is that they
need to do, whether it is general conditioning work, weight training, running
doing or what have you. Not only does it tell them what to do but it helps them
keep track of their progress towards their goals and focused on the commitment
they have made to achieve them.
The successful person has a habit of doing the things that failures don't like to do.
Although they don't necessary like doing them either because they are disciplined
they do them anyway. When we are focused we become quite adept at managing
ourselves, prioritizing our tasks so that in the end we are truly pursuing goal
achieving activities.
In the Olympics of life, you have many tools available today, ranging from
computers to palm pilots, to daily planners to a simple sheet of paper. Whichever
one you chose it will be of no use to you unless you write your training
program...your list of things to do in it. As I have heard it said, "Never start the
day until it's done." In other words plan your day the night before. Ideally plan
your schedule at least a week in advance and like the athlete who measures his or
her progress by how fast they run jump or throw, track and measure your
progress based on the number of goals achieving things you are able to
accomplish each week.
Focus is keeping track of your thoughts
As important as it is to focus on our actions, it is even more important to focus on
our thoughts. A wise man once said thoughts are things and we tend to become
that which we think about all day long. Psychologists have determined that the
average person thinks between 20K and 60K thoughts everyday and each and
every one of them either move us towards or away from our goals. Thomas
Fuller(1710-790) an African slave and mathematician was quoted as saying "A
strong will, a settled purpose and an invincible determination can accomplish
almost anything and in this lies the distinction between great men and little men."
When you allow yourself to focus on those kinds of thoughts, you start to act in a
more empowering way and thus enjoy more positive results
As Norman Vincent Peal said "more gold has been mined from the thoughts of
men than has ever been taken from the earth". Make a commitment from this
point forward to take frequent inventory of your thoughts and since you tend to
move towards your dominant thoughts make it a habit to only think of the things
that you want instead of thinking of the things you do not want.
Over the next few weeks improve your level of discipline by becoming more
focused. Next issue we will discuss the final aspect of discipline-ATTITUDE.
Keep on Pushing!
Copyright (C) 2005 Devon Harris.
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About the Author:
Three-time Jamaican Bobsled Team Olympian Devon Harris' message to "keep on pushing" inspires the rejected salesperson to rediscover his or her mojo, the stumped engineer to find a better solution, the overloaded executive to see a new path forward. Devon's real life story of perseverance and persistence combined with his powerful presence and persuasive ideas have positively impacted thousands at Fortune 100 companies, non-profits, governmental organizations, schools, and universities. He is the author of the motivational childrens book Yes, I Can! and the semi-autobiographical motivational book, Keep On Pushing: Hot Lessons From Cool Runnings.



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