Disabled Dating Online Tips: Leaving Your Burdens And Flying High Online And Offline

Disabled Dating Online Tips: Leaving Your Burdens And Flying High Online And Offline

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Everybody has burdens. Being a person with disabilities, you might argue that you have more on your plate than anyone else. But you know what? It's not necessarily true. It's the way you look at things and the way you allow or disallow burdens to weigh down on you that play a huge factor.

When my high school boyfriend and I broke up, I was really devastated. I sulked for days and let the burden weigh my heart down. Needless to say, I felt that I'd never love or be happy ever again. Exaggerated, I know, but at that time teenage angst made things bleaker than they really were. Finally, my mum went into my room and told me, "You have to let go of all those burdens that you have if you want to feel happy and free again. Ever wonder how some birds can fly so high? It's because they don't let their burdens weight them down, and they leave them all at the ground the moment they decide to take flight". I don't know if it's the birds illustration, but her words still echo in my mind until today whenever I feel sad and down.

Yes, disabilities might be your hardship but the sooner you accept that as part of who you are, and not as a burden you have to carry then that's the only time you can fly freely. Don't be afraid to experience the things in life because of your physical limitations. Allow yourself to fly high, to dream big and to love truly. And with online dating being so popular and diverse nowadays, finding your perfect match is easier than ever!

When communicating with your online prospects and friends, it's perfectly fine to share life stories. Talk about the wonderful things in your life and share the things that make you interesting. You can share about the trials that you've encountered, but remember to also share how you overcame them! Never ever play the pity card! Instead, show them that you have a positive outlook in life.

Of course, honesty is still very much important. Don't be afraid to share things about your disability. Be open up about it! Why? Because in this jaded world today, people appreciate the people who have the strength to admit their frailties and imperfections; they love the person who is honest enough to admit their weaknesses and embrace them to make themselves stronger.

Online dating can be your sky, so don't be afraid to spread your wings! You'll be surprised at the number of wings that would congregate around your wonderful personality and want to fly with you.


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