The top five Dating Tip sites by Alexa ranking as of July 11, 2008 are:
Double your Dating – 12,987
Dating To Relating – 43,381
The Seduction Chronicles – 52,287
Style Life – 61,225
The Mystery Method – 62,997
I’ve bought all these books and systems and have tried them. I have been studying these kinds of materials for five years now. My ranking based on workability for the average guy is as follows (I am excluding The Seduction Chronicles as it is not a Guru site. )
- Dating To Relating (Mr. L. Rx)
- Double Your Dating (David DeAngelo)
- The Mystery Method (Mystery)
- Style Life (Neil Strauss)
Now let me explain a little about each guru and why I ranked them as I did rankings.
Dating To Relating
Absolutely the BEST product out there.
The education you get from this book is tops. No matter what you are looking for you will get the answers here. If you want quick brainless techniques - they are here. If you want sophisticated intellectual understanding of women - it is here. It is not just a bunch of pick up lines, and techniques (although it gives you that too.) It is a complete education about women and what works.
What is unique about this book is that the techniques presented are SITUATIONAL and will work for any type of guy and they will work on any type of girl that you are interested in. So if you want to purchase a book that will have a very high probability of actually working for you, this is it.
That is what we liked about this book and system. None of the other books and systems we reviewed had total SITUATIONAL data that covers ALL situations. The author, Mr. L. Rx, does not give you just one brainless technique of how to hit up on women in bars or clubs, or on the internet, or how to be successful with one personality type. He covers it all. From bars and clubs, to on the street, in the store, on the internet, etc.
Not only does Mr. L. Rx tell you how to meet women. He tells you how to meet different kinds of women with different kinds of personalities in different kinds of situations. No one else really does this.
Double Your Dating
Double Your Dating is an awesome compilation of data for men.
This is the largest compilation of data to help men ever assembled in one place. Besides the original product David DeAngelo now has scores of other products to help men overcome their fears and "wussiness" with women.
I personally bought his original product and his Dating Guru Interview series on CDs that come out monthly. There is a lot of value in David's products. I’ve still subscribe to him and it has been five years that I have been buying his products. I think it is a perfect complement to Dating To Relating above, and I would recommend to anyone who has the extra money to get this product in addition to Dating To Relating above.
The reason being that Dating To Relating teaches you how to develop your own techniques and Double Your Dating gives you a lot of data to help stir your creative juices to help you develop those unique techniques. David has a free daily newsletter that is absolutely great.
The downside is he hasn't quite put it all together as well as Mr. L. Rx. and although there is a lot of truth in his volumes of data, he ultimately focuses on a strategy and doesn't quite get the situational approach of Mr. L. Rx. So, David's approach will work for some guys, but it isn't a system that will work for ALL guys - Mr. L. Rx's system is a system that will work for ALL guys and ALL types of girls.
Mystery Method and Style Life/The Game/Neil Strauss
Well you might ask why I am combining the Mystery Method with Neil Stauss's (Style's) The Game?
Well for those of you who don't know, Mystery was Neil's initial Guru. I'm combining them here as they are more or less coming from the same technique or strategy.
I am including them here (even though I only give them a four-out-of-ten rating) for the following reason. In conjunction with the above two products - "Dating To Relating" and "Double Your Dating" they can have decent value.
Taken on their own, I would not recommend them for the average guy. The techniques that are given here, definitely work, but they only work on a narrow band of what I would label shallow women.
And when you use the techniques on their own (without the more sophisticated understanding of women put forth in "Dating To Relating" and "Double Your Dating"), you yourself become rather shallow. And a lot of guys won't be able to (or won't want to) use the techniques for that reason.
Now, there is not anything at all wrong with being shallow, as sometimes you just want to get laid. But sometimes you want more than that. You are NOT going to get the MORE part from these techniques (unless you just derive it on your own from the sheer volume of experience.)
Mr. L. Rx in Dating To Relating, apparently evolved almost the exact same techniques as Mystery on his own and gives them to you in "Dating To Relating" ( And since he is older than Mystery he was probably the first one using these techniques.)
But Mr. L. Rx. also tells you many more techniques. Mr. L. Rx shows you how to pick up the other 80% of women in clubs and the other 90% of women in life
that these techniques won't work on. He tells you how to get a "real" relationship and how to pick up "real" (non-shallow) women.
Mystery and Neil Strauss's techniques are very powerful and work, but the end product is you might not like the kind of girls you get as a result of this, and you might not like who you are being as you do this.
Plus a major drawback is that a lot of their techniques are just memorized lines. Even Neil Strauss has admitted that "The Game is changing." So many guys have learned his and Mystery's pick up lines and routines that women have heard them before and recognize them and men are getting busted for using them.
There are even gurus on the internet who took Mystery's training and were successful at it, but gave it up and don't practice it anymore. In one of David DeAngelo's Interviews, he interviews David M. who had become an Internet Dating Guru and quite frankly states he did not enjoy doing the Mystery Method even though he graduated and was successful at it.
So if you can more or less learn the exact same techniques plus a lot more from Mr. L. Rx, why then am I also recommending Mystery/Neil Strauss?
The value of these materials is similar to what I said in the Double Your Dating section above. Mystery goes into more details about the method than Mr. L. Rx does. So, if you are really interested in being a "player" as your life's ambition, there is value in getting this information in conjunction with Mr. L. Rx's data.
Mr. L. Rx actually gives you more techniques to be a player with, but Mystery gives you more in-depth information on this one strategy with this one "type" of woman than Mr. L. Rx does. Mr. L. Rx gives you more tools to create "pick up" strategies with, but Mystery and Neil give you a lot more information that you can create with once you get and understand Mr. L. Rx's tools.
The value of Neil Strauss's book "The Game" is that it gives you a very interesting sort of historical application of the techniques to think with. Again, this can be very useful.
Neil has also evolved Mystery's techniques on his own and will give you a slighly different but similar perspective on things and has his own website and workshops in addition to his book "The Game."
So, if you are the kind of guy like me who is very interested in being very skilled at this "meeting women" stuff, then I would say these materials (The Mystery Method and "The Game") are also a MUST for your library in addition to "Dating To Relating" and "Double Your Dating."
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