Dating Tips For Single Mums: The 3 Steps To Deciding What You Want In Mr. Right

If you think that finding someone to date is tough after a divorce is tough, then finding Mr. Right might seem impossible. What affects your dating odds is your perspective about getting dates, boyfriends and yes- Mr. Right. If you want your social and dating life to be healthy, then you should know what kind of partner you want. Better put this on top of your dating priorities especially while you are unattached to anyone, that way your standards won't be based on one person.

1. You can start by writing down some characteristics and traits of what you want in your partner.. Realise that even though outward appearances do count, but it fades with time. So it's better that you put the physical features on second and try to look at how attractive their attitudes and characteristics are. Always include those features in which is important to you in a man and what makes you happy.

Here are some of the things that women wish to see with their Mr. Right: Hardworking but not obsessed with work, sensitive to my needs, a true gentleman, has a great sense of humor, shares similar interests, likes and background, dependable, responsible, affectionate and romantic, likes similar sports and activities, respects my freedom, doesn't demand, comfortable with kids, thinks about MY kids and shares his plans and goals in life with me.

2. Evaluate past partners. List the things, characteristics that attracted you to ex-boyfriends, past lovers and the ex-husband. How many of THEIR traits have you matched with your wishlist? Find a connection to the traits you want in your Mr. Right, to the traits you see in the REAL men of your life and find out any similarities. If the essential qualities for you are "honest", "kind", "helpful"; but you tend to be in a relationship with men who are "good looking", "sexy", "great in bed"; then you should take note of this conflict. Be aware of this conflict and resist the temptation to go out with these men, you can dance with them but don't be emotionally attached or else you're just going around in circles.

3. Take action. Find that Mr. Right and don't settle less on your expectations, you'd be pleasantly surprised when he comes along. Knowing what you want and need before jumping into a relationship helps you to figure out which ones are the Mr. Right potentials from the not-so-good partner material. By doing so, you can easily be able to find compatibility and strong ground for your relationship. So here are the steps for you to consider before finding Mr. Right.

Remember these few but important tips and make your own Mr. Right wish list and evaluate yourself so you'd be able to find Mr. Right and shun Mr. Wrong.

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