Dating Tips For 21st Century Guys

It's every guy's nightmare, especially if you're shy like me, so in this article I'm going to share with you a few simple dating tips you can adopt to take the anxiety out of process. Now these dating tips are not complicated but, if you're new to the scene or nervous they will help a lot.

1. Be confident, women love men to be comfortable in their own skin! The reason for this is simply because it gives a woman a sense of security and reassures them at a deeper subconscious level. Don't overdo it though, the margins between confidence and arrogance is often indefinable but trust me women find arrogance a huge turn off. You see who you are and the way you carry yourself speaks volumes to a female, the way you interact with others socially will impress her.

2. The next tip on dating kind of follows on from the 1st tip and is possibly even more important - just be yourself, I know that sounds like an old cliche you've heard repeatedly but it is a must. Let your personality pour out like milk from a jug, don't hide yourself. Also try to be entertaining, poke fun at your short comings. Be careful, I said let your personality come out not your insecurities, and definitely do not spend the whole time talking about you!
3. Your appearance is so so important. make sure you scrub up well, because you can be damn sure your date will be going all out to look fabulous for you. And you must absolutely do the same for her. She will appreciate the effort so much and see it as an indication of how highly you regard her, revealing the great lengths you'll take to please her. Make sure your clothes are pressed, you are showered shaved, you smell good (but don't overdo the aftershave) and your fingernails are neatly trimmed and clean, women cannot stand dirty fingernails.

4. Above all of the dating tips thus far, I think this is the most critical because it is actually about the woman and not you. And it has to do with greeting her let me explain...

As I mentioned in tip 3 your date, would have spent hours upon hours upon hours getting ready for you. She would have tried every item of clothing she posses in an attempt to look perfect for you. Maybe going as far to purchase a whole new ensemble shoes, bag, dress not to mention having her hair and nails done.

Now what you have to do is recognise this fact, and tell her immediately you clap eyes on her how fantastic she looks. It's not enough to say she looks great tell her she looks fabulous.

5. Lastly, if you want your date to be an absolute smash hit, these last few tips are going to give you a real edge. The first is this, listen, listen, listen. You see women love to talk be attentive and hang on her every word, even begin to paraphrase (repeating some of her words) her to show you value her opinions and establish a rapport. Next is a tiny bit of body language science, when talking with her lean in towards her slightly and keep your eyes firmly locked on hers, this will again show how keen and interested you are in her and build empathy.

There you have it 5 dating tips for you shy guys to make the process less scary.
I hope you have found them useful and will practice and master these dating tips.