Dating Psychology 101: Demystifying Her Body Language

When you go on a night out with your buddies - it could be that you are simply out to have a good time. But if you are single and the situation presents itself that there's a possibility for you to hook up with a beautiful woman, why pass up the chance? Another scenario is when it is your specific purpose to meet members of the opposite sex and perhaps get an invitation by the end of the night. No matter which of these categories you fall under, there are certain skills that you need to learn so that you can unleash the Casanova in you.

Check out the latest clubs and bars. This is precisely where women go to hand out with their girl friends, meet men and simply have a good time. This is a good a place as any to discover the inner Lothario or Casanova in you - and practice your dating skills. If you feel like you have yet to master the art of reading the most subtle hints which will tell you if a woman is interested in you or not - then it is high time to harness your body language reading skills.

Basically, women are habitually giving out non-verbal cues to show their interest. If you receive 'the look' once you initially try to approach her, then you might not necessarily be using your finest dating techniques. Get rid of the pickup lines which you have been using for God-knows-how-long, and simply use a subtle but straightforward approach.

Afterwards, that is the time that you can sharpen even more your dating skills by putting on the charm. You wouldn't want a hot woman walking the other direction once she sees you approaching. This is precisely the reason why it pays to learn all about how you can 'listen' to a woman's body language.

Unleashing Your Casanova Techniques on Understanding her Body Language

If you would like to bring out the Casanova in you and learn how to actually understand a woman's language, there are non-verbal cues that you need to look for. More often than not, women use subtle cues to lure men into their 'trap' - which pretty much means that they are interested. To help you out, here is a quick list of some non-verbal cues that Casanovas like you need to watch out for:

Leaning over. When a woman leans over you when making a point or when hearing what you have to say, that is a good sign that she is definitely interested. They do this even when conversing with their closest female friends. Once you see that she tips her head your way or adjusts her body in a way that you two get closer together, that is a sure sign that she will say yes to your next invitation.

Holding your gaze. Men usually need not-so-subtle invitations because they are really clueless when it comes to what women want. But when a woman who you just met deliberately holds your gaze for five seconds or so, that is a good sign that you have managed to capture her interest for real. She is basically speaking to you with her eyes and telling you that it is up to you to make the next move.

Combined body language and subtle hints - "You can invite me for a nightcap." Some men are simply lucky in this department. If she flirts with you right back, initiates physical contact and reacts positively to your verbal and physical overtures, then that is a sign that she is thinking along the lines of tangling the sheets with you.

As you can see, it is quite easy to bring out the Casanova in you and get an invitation for a next day or even spending that same night at her or your place. Simply by making sure that you are correctly reading her body language, you will again be a master of the dating scene and take the next step after meeting a good-looking woman - be it a second date, a nightcap or spending an entire night together if you are lucky.