Cupid's Biggest Mistake? Spiritual Butt Kicking A Broken Heart

I must confess I was reluctant to re-enter cyberspace after my weekend adventure in Arroyo Grande, CA. I attended a Native American ceremony called Long Dance that I was hesitant to attend. Why?

This ceremony spiritually kicks your butt in the sweetest way. The day before I was scheduled to hit the road my back went out and I had sharp shooting pains behind my heart from a trapped nerve. Coincidence?

Absolutely not!

This ancient spiritual ritual pulls up any old wounds to be confronted for healing. Thankfully my dear friend Kim Castle offered to drive, except I didn't have the directions and everyone who was attending had already headed up to the site.

My intuition flashed an image of a car driving towards us who would know how to get there. When I later saw a car on a dirt road (the location is far from easy to find), my reflexes were lightening quick. "Kim, stop that car!" I said.

It turned out the driver worked on the ranch and knew specific directions to the ceremonial site.

After an amazing four-hour sweat lodge on Friday led by the wonderful Hua Anwa, my back pain was 90% healed on Saturday night and I managed to dance until 6am.

The intention of the ceremony is to submerge oneself in a timeless void that consciously connects you to higher guidance. Now I'm supercharged to a whole new level of intuition and awareness!

In the past week I keep hearing that you're doing everything to meet your soul mate and yet Cupid seems to have gone off your radar. Please don't give up!

- Have you suffered a broken heart?
- Does asking for what you want in a relationship make you uneasy?
- Are you longing for a daily dose of feeling high on love?
- Do you wonder if exquisitely true love only exists in fairytales?

I believe everyone has a special mate who wants to share their life with you.

The biggest mistake I see people make is they shut down their emotions.

It is common for my most heartbroken clients to say they have no feeling in their heart and that they are numb.

Numbness is a sign that you have an intense reservoir of emotions beneath the surface that need to be released so they may heal.

When you stuff down your emotions, deny them, pretend they don't exist; you create more pain and blockages at an energetic level than you can ever imagine.

How do I know this?

I see it at a psychic level of awareness and you can see it to (read chapter 8 of Unleash The Psychic In You).

Do you know what happens when you ignore your soul's needs?

Your higher self (the wise inner counselor) will kick your butt in every area of your life. You'll think other people are causing you pain however as you become more aware, it may be an uncomfortable yet liberating experience to see that you created this reality for yourself. Hence my spirit guides use the term "spiritual butt kicking."

You are meant to experience a life filled with love. When you overcome the fear of feeling pain, it will be replaced with a deep healing in your heart that will surround your aura in love, making you magnetic to true love.

You get to be your own Cupid. How cool is that!