Child Custody Help: Resources For Custody And Learning Your Rights

You can find help for your child custody case and learn about your child custody rights in more places than you would expect. Obviously, a family law attorney and your local courthouse are great sources of help. This list covers some of the less commonly known sources of help and support where you can fin out more about your custody rights. Every case is unique, and not all sources of help will work for all people.

1. Your child's other parent. Surprisingly, your former spouse can actually help you with your custody case. If you can work together long enough to come to a child custody arrangement that works, you will both benefit by saving on legal fees and court time. This also allows both parents to protect their rights because they will both get the time they want with the child. If your former spouse is totally unreasonable and unreliable, documenting this behavior in court can only help your case.

2. Your church or religious house of worship. If you belong to a church, you may be able to find help in several forms. There may be a lawyer in the congregation willing to offer reduced rates for fellow members. You may also be able to find advice and counseling, and even financial support if needed.

3. Your child's teacher and school. Make sure your child's teacher is aware of what is going on in his or her life. Divorce and custody struggles can adversely affect your child's grades and behavior, and the school should be aware of what is going on. Your child's teacher may also be willing to appear in court or complete an affidavit on your behalf.

4. Your computer. You can use your computer to go online and do research for your case, reach out to other parents in the same situation, and keep up to date on the latest child custody laws and procedures in your state. You can also find information about what your rights are in your case. You can also use computer software to design a custom child custody agreement and visitation schedule.

5. Your local library. You can get free online access, take out books or DVDs that will help with your case, or join a support group for divorced parents through your local library. Libraries offer a huge array of services for the community, and are often used as meeting places for special interest groups. You may be able to find valuable advice and information from a variety of sources at your local community library.

Friends, family, and coworkers may also be able to help you with support, referrals and advice. Simply having people to talk to can be very beneficial, and help reduce some of the anxiety you may be feeling during a stressful child custody battle. Never be afraid to ask for help if you need it, and be willing to think "outside the box". Chances are you will be glad you did.