Did you know that we live in an era where there's an estimated 85% chance of there being infidelity in a marriage.
Isn't that abominable? That almost 9 out of 10 times when people get married one of them will end up being unfaithful sometime in the course of the marriage? And with the rate of divorce, it might be safe to say that many of those affairs are the cause of divorce.
All that to say, we should definitely be focused on lowering the infidelity rate in America, but for right now, since it's probably not going down for a while, we really should probably learn to catch our partners when and if they cheat.
Oh, I should tell you one more statistic...It's reasonable to say that you're probably reading this article because you have at least a little bit of a suspicion that your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you, right?
Well...85% of the time when one person in a relationship suspects the other of an affair, they're correct.
I know that sucks to hear, and I know you want to say that you're the 15%, but you should probably just go ahead and accept, at least for now, that you're partner is cheating on you.
Ok? It's going to be alright, because now I'm going to tell you how to know FOR SURE that you're partner is cheating.
Sound good? Let's get to it!
#1 One thing that your partner might do, if he or she has caller ID, is that they might tamper with the call information. A common thing to do is for them to go into the caller ID and try and delete the incoming and outgoing calls.
So how do you know if they're messing with it? Well, you could start by just checking the calls a couple times a day...Discretely of course.
#2 Do you guys have an email account that you share? I know that in many marriages there's a shared email account. Usually a good tip off, if your husband isn't very tech saavy and wouldn't set up his own email, is that he will just start deleting many of the incoming emails.
Again, as long as you're wary of this you can make a point of just checking a couple times a day so you don't miss anything.
#3 This one is more of an emotional tip...Basically the thing is that in many affairs there is at least SOME emotional involvement. Both for you and for your husband.
So, what's that mean for you? Well, it means that they will likely change the way that they act around you, at least slightly. The most common way for this to happen is that they will become either accusatory or jealous much more often than they did before they began having an affair.
Just be on the look out for this kind of behavior; typically it's not difficult to find if you know to look for it.
Bonus Tip The best thing that anyone in your shoes can do right now is educate themselves. The better you understand how to catch your partner...
The better you can put yourself in your husband's shoes...
The better you'll easier it'll be for you to build a concrete wall of evidence around them so that when you make your confrontation there's no way they'll squirm their way out of responsibility.
Now, I know that this might sound a little bit intimidating to some people, but let me tell you right now, it's really not! You just have to know what you're doing!
And how can you do that?
Well firstly, you could always read some more of my articles...I'd suggest you check out
signs of cheating for more information.
