Can A Person Sense If I Am Needy?

Can a person sense if I am needy?

The answer is: Yes the definitely can! being needy is not something that we can easily hide. Most of the time its so obvious that they can tell from the first date. I will walk you through the most obvious signs of neediness. Understanding where the problem is can help you fix it. No one likes needy, clingy people, this is a turn off for most of us. Heres what your date sees and why they might interpret as neediness.

Lack of confidence on the first date. First date ends, you look at them with an insecure smile and ask: Did you have a good time? This might not appear such a big mistake, but your date can interpret it as being insecure. If you were confident you would not even ask if they had a good time, youd already know. You should be asking them So, where shall we go next time? You dont have to use the exact same words, but you get the picture. Confident people know what they want, and this is what we are all attracted to, right? Confident people.

When is a good time to call them? Heres a situation when you can have needy written all over you. The three days rule is obsolete. No one has to wait so long to call someone they like. This doesnt not mean you should call them right after you date, to ask if they got home safe, then call again in the morning to ask how they slept. Or, if they havent called you back, you start emailing or texting, to ask them if they got your call. Just give them time to breathe and have time to miss you. Use common sense, dont appear desperate. Call them once, after that, its their turn.

You say yes to everything they say. Ok, we all like to be right and have people agreeing with what we say. But we dont always expect from our date to say yes to everything that comes out of our mouth. This translates into: I dont have an opinion of my own, so Ill just go ahead and accept whatever you say and do whatever you want me to. And you dont want them to think that, do you? Again, we get to confidence. If you are confident and smart, you will stand up for what you think, even if it means contradicting someone you like. Dont be afraid to disagree sometimes, they might even like you more if you do.

You are on call 24/7. When you like someone, its totally ok to make them feel special and needed. This includes making some adjustments to your schedule, in order to include them. But watch out not to go overboard with that. If you are too available, they will think that you are so desperate that you will drop everything at their call. If you were supposed to go to a friends birthday, and they call you, so you cancel on your friend, you might wonder if you are not too needy. Dont be afraid to say you have other plans. This might even be a good thing. It shows that they are not the center of your universe, and that they have to earn that important part in your life.

These are some of the things that can make you look needy. Ask yourself if you are doing these mistakes and try to fix them. Im all for showing love and attention, making that person feel special and needed. But moderation is the key. If we give them all on a silver platter, what will they have to fight for?

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