Break-ups: If You Really Loved Me, The Feelings Wouldn't Have Gone Away That Fast

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Break-ups are hard, there are a lot of things you have to give up and this can be really heart breaking especially if those things are whats making you happy. Even giving up the person you thought you could have spent the rest of your life with. If that happens, things such as your ex lover finding someone new. There are even rules such as no dating for like 6 months, because actually thinking of seeing them with someone new can be really painful especially if you still have feelings to your ex. But one thing to know about moving on and accepting is that, if you truly love them, you could not stand to fall in love that quickly with another person.

Sometimes you may think that finding someone can make you forget. But it really depends on who you are dating now, are they better than your past lover? Or you just can't stop comparing your new lover to your ex-lover because they are just both different. You need to avoid this thinking, because it would end up with regrets and guilt. If you are now ready to be in a relationship with someone, make sure that no one will get hurt. Not your new lover, ex-lover or even you, you should avoid the things that would bring to you and others.

If you really love someone, you wouldn't have given up on them. But if things hasn't been really working for both of you then you can still how them you still love them by respecting of not finding a rebound or someone new. Love can make us do foolish things, even if you are already out in a relationship.

Make things right for your ex-lover. Don't show them that what you have was nothing because you found another special person for you. Avoid the things that would hurt them and to you also. It may not be easy giving up a person, but its also not easy to fall in love again. Take your time to heal, and respect each other even if both of you decided to just let go. It doesn't mean that you have no feelings for each other anymore if both of you decided to break-up. But think what you are letting go and avoid regret. You are just showing to them that you never really stop loving someone, you just learn to live without them.


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