Boudoir Tips: How To Sex Up The Bedroom

Are you experiencing a little boredom in the bedroom? Too much snoring and not enough scoring? Well these helpful tips will add a little spice to your love life!

Tip 1 - Ambiance

Turn your bedroom into a love den by creating a romantic setting. This can be done in several different ways. You can strategically place aromatic scented candles in the room. Scents such as vanilla, tropical breezes, and just about any fruit filled smell should do the trick.

Another way to create a romantic scene in the bedroom is with the use of music. Having some soft melodic tunes eminating from the room will undoubtedly entice your beau into the boudoir. If you are talented enough to be able to play your own instrument like flute or violin, even better. Think along the lines of a snake charmer!

Perhaps another solution to enhance the bedroom setting is with rose petals. You can place them on top of the bed, or even make a trail for your lover that starts at the front door and ends at the bedroom. Either way, he will be quite pleased when he reaches his final destination.

Tip 2 - Wardrobe

Since men are visual creatures, this is probably the most important tip in creating a sensual bedroom scene. Some women are against lingerie because they feel its a waste of money to spend so much on something that will be torn off after a short period of time! We beg to differ. Think of it this way: We spend about the same amount of money on food at a restaurant that is barely going to be on our plate long enough for the waiter to get a chance to come back and ask us how everything tastes! In other words, its all about the satisfaction.

Purchasing lingerie is like purchasing stocks, if you pick the right one, you will get a HUGE return on your investment! When selecting the color of lingerie, you can't go wrong with red or black. You can also choose to wear your partner's favorite color. This will show him that you put some thought into your selection. There are many different styles of lingerie to choose from.
The key is to wear something that makes you feel comfortable and sexy at the same time. Adding thigh high stockings and garters are a nice touch. Your partner will enjoy the seduction of taking the articles off one piece at a time.

If you really want to liven things up, purchase an adult costume for role playing with your partner. There are plenty of websites that specialise in adult costumes so the possibilities are endless. You can be Naughty Nurse Nancy, Christy the Cheerleader, Fiona the Flight Attendant or Francesa the French Maid. Whatever your heart desires, you can become that person for the night. The websites also offer accessories like wigs, hair bows and other props so that you can really get into character.

Tip 3 - Appearance

Once you have selected which lingerie or outfit you are going to wear, make sure that your entire body is soft, supple and scintillating. You can achieve this with body balm or glitter body splash. This will serve as an aphrodisiac. The application of a moisturiser will give the body a natural glow and also has a slimming and toning effect. If you want to add a little color, then use a self tanning body moisturiser. This is especially helpful for women that get a little pale during the winter months.

Tip 4 - The Intangibles

These include items like massage oils, body creams, body paint, edible items, feathers and masks. You can use any of this items during any part of the evening. For example, you can start the evening off by giving your partner a sensual massage with the massage oil. Some of the oils on the market, naturally heat up when they are applied to give a more pleasurable experience. Another idea would be to incorporate several of the above mentioned items together. You can instruct your partner to wear the mask while you feed him an edible item. Once he gets the item correct, he wins a kiss. Next, you can use the body paint or the feather to write a word on his arm or neck. If he can guess the word you wrote, then he earns another kiss.

Tip 5 - The Element of Surprise

Being spontaneous always adds excitement. Adding the element of intrigue heightens the anticipation level of your lover. Here is an idea that you can try: Arrive at his job and deliver his lunch in a trench coat and heels. Give him an innocent hug and kiss, and a sweet smile before you tell him that you have to hurry off. Leave him a note in his lunch bag telling him that you weren't wearing anything under the trench coat and that you will be waiting for him in the exact same attire when he gets home!