By now you notice the value of confident body language. But what are some good ways to make any guy appear like dating material to a woman? Here I will share with you a couple of exact methods to attain.
Girls watch for your body language, it literally tells them all they need to feel to make a decision about you in 30 seconds. Sometimes in seconds. It is not conscious, they just sense it. If your body language says dweeb, it will not matter what you say.
Here are a few critical mistakes guys do with body language, just quit doing these and your pickup success rate will shoot up.
1. Keep your hands still- Don't be fidgeting with a drink, tapping your fingers or stuffing your hands in your pockets. Simply let your hands relax. Don't be restless. Keep your hands up and open towards the woman.
2. Super eye contact- This one is huge. Keep eye contact with everyone and smile all the time. Peering into a ladies eyes is looking into her emotions. Look deeply at her pupils, when her pupils get bigger, she is interested. When a woman sees you looking the first time, DON'T LOOK AWAY. Maintain your look at her until she looks away first. Do this and the girl will be impressed by your confidence.
3. Crossing your arms- is a common closed body language example. Avoid this by keeping your arms to the sides and always be sure you are spread out.
4. Don't slouch- stay upright and relaxed. You are a real man use strong body language.
5. Your voice should be deeper and not sound like a weak guy. Speak much louder than you think feels natural. You are most likely always talking to quiet when you first meet a woman. Have some power when speaking.
6. Have moves like Brad Pitt- Slow gestures and movements, Think cool and calm, take your time.
7. It is not what you say to a woman that makes a big difference. Maintaining the body language of a natural cool guy makes a difference. Watch how the players work. Grab some of the tricks and try them yourself.
8. Don't avoid looking at other people, it appears you are weak and not being real.
Good body language is really all about the way you carry yourself and your essence in front of others. Make sure you show yourself in a strong, effective way. You exude cool, energy and happy. You know what to do and the ways to go and get it. When women look at you they can sense your energy. Women will want to be close to you and women will want to date you. I suggest you read everything you can on body language and pick up. Then start getting out there and practice as often as possible.
