Best Way To Say Sorry

Best Way To Say Sorry

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If you're going to argue, argue right. Let your partner say his and then give your piece. Arguing doesn't only mean verbal feuds. Some arguments are on the physical level. Disagreements can ruin a relationship if not fixed. How do you say sorry? Here are some ideas to help you make your apology more successful.

For boys:

1.Give her flowers and chocolates. These gifts will help soften her anger. Choose her favorite flower or if you don't have any idea, settle for a rose or a bouquet of roses. Red roses are traditional but you're sure that she will like it because all women love red roses.
2.Fetch her from her office or school. This would mean that you still care despite your differences. Don't bring up the argument on your way home. Reserve your thoughts during your talk.
3.Talk to her one on one. Admit your mistake and promise that you won't do it again or avoid letting it happen again. Look her in the eye to show her your sincerity. When you talk, get her thoughts. It's better if the communication id two-way. Make her realize that your argument will taint your relationship if you don't do something about it. If it's her fault, make her realize it.
4.Apologize even in front of other people to show her that you don't care what other people think, as long as you can get her forgiveness.
5.Let the past be past. Don't bring up dead issues from previous arguments. This will only worsen the issue. If past issues are brought, you'll never stop arguing.

For girls:

1.Cook his favorite dish. They say that the way to man's heart is through his stomach. A good food sets a nice atmosphere. Bring out a glass of wine to make it more special.
2.Offer to give him a massage or a back rub. If he declines, take it lightly. He might still be upset about your argument. If he agrees, then it's better. Try to make him feel relaxed and put all the stress away. Talk to him while doing the massage. Explain your argument and say sorry for what you said or did. Get his opinion.
3.Learn how to listen. If he says something about your mistake, accept it. And never repeat your mistakes. Learn something from what happened.
4.Be humble. Admit your wrong and assure him that you'll never do it intentionally again.
5.Don't let your argument last for more than a day because if this happens, you'll have difficulty resolving your conflict. Limit it to a day. Don't sleep on it.

Nothing tastes sweeter than a love reunited after a storm. It strengthens your relationship as you learn from each mistake. These disagreements help you grow together because you learn more about each others differences and how to go around them. Don't take these arguments as a hindrance to your happiness but as a tool for shaping and improving your relationship.


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