Are You Insecure?

Almost every human being in this planet has its unique feeling. When a man starts to feel things like love, it is undeniably true that envy will come along. Among love and envy which is wrong or much troublesome? Is it love or envy? Well love is never incorrect in the first place it is when love is being poisoned by envy which is wrong. Why envy? This is because feeling envious to someone is called being insecure.

Most healthy relationships at the start end up very stupid. This is because of insecurities that a member of the relationship may feel towards his/her partner. There are thousands of reasons why insecurities may take place in the scene.

Here are the most common scenarios of insecurities and some advice you can lean on:

a.) Lack of self buoyancy may be the first reason. Humans are made to have imperfection. Therefore he/she may now feel that he/she is the kind of person that is insufficient enough to be someones partner. Humans have the tendency to see things incorrectly. Making them forget to appreciate there own.

* Learn to appreciate your own self. Being uncertain about the things around you including your self in a relationship is the most common reason why. Dont think that youre not suitable for that person even if the people around you dont like the way it is. Be proud of it because as the saying goes, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder was never wrong at the first place. Humans have different standards over things in which others may consider it as a good asset. Concentrate on what you have like your character, abilities and your capacity. Of course be proud of what you have physically.

b.) Previous awful experiences of being betrayed. This is one of the common reasons why people nowadays are scared to commit some mistakes and entrust their relationship to others again.

* Well, first ask yourself? Did I betray someone before therefore I was betrayed by him/her also? It is a matter of cause-and-effect picture. This is because there is no trust established in the relationship thats why you end up very dreadful. Admit to your self if youre wrong then make a change. If the cause of that previous experience is your partner, then ask yourself why. Is it for my behaviour? By this, you can make a self assessment or evaluation about who you really are. It is better to know your self first after knowing others so you may not misjudge them later on. Learn to let go off things because they are not for you.

c.) Being too much comparative in thinking. We sometimes confuse ourselves on things that arent confusing in the first place. Hence, we tend to compare ourselves or our partners onto others.

* Being able to appreciate others by their physical aspect as well as their characters is good. Dont push yourself in confusions because of too much comparative in thinking. The number one rule is be contented of what you have. Having one is enough, be thankful for it because it is a God-given blessing. Dont make yourself foolish by thinking the more I have the better because in the end it is yourself that was being tricked above all.

Kicking out insecurities is a bit of a hassle but if you know how to handle certain situations, then it would not be hard for you. Always think positively and always look on the brighter side of things. Love is only a spice of your life. Go on if its needed. What matters most is your dignity that should be kept whole all throughout.