"Going out and picking up girls", or just "Sarging"?
Sarging was originally coined by Ross Jefferies after his cat, "sargy". It was meant as a different way to say, "I"m going out to pickup girls". Unfortunately these days it is way over used within the pickup community and indeed, sounds kind of lame.
Nonetheless, the idea behind Sarging is an organized process of going out, and getting out of the house. Sometimes, depending on the type of guy that is learning to meet women, the very act of getting out of the house will immensely help. "Showing up is 90% of life", as Woody Allen would say.
There are few key guidelines for "pickup sarging" that assist PUAs when going out:
1.Add value "" always being value to the table with guys, girls, and groups. Give a compliment without the intent of taking sometime. Just give a sincere compliment without an expectation of a reply. Learn to assess the situation, and add value. Experience will give you more to work with but try to see things from the other person"s point of view.
2.Be honest with you progress, and try to push through your fears. Vocalize them if you have approach anxiety. If you scared, at least be honest with yourself and your wings and be aware of it.
3.How can I make other people"s experience a better day? Always remember this key important lesson.
4.Don"t take rejections personally. They are not your concern. Focus on developing your skills and being positive to the most number of people possible.
5.Work on comfort, not coming across as creepy, or outcome dependent. Genuinely give off a good vibe and everything else (calibrations, routines) will tend to naturally fall into place.
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