A Man's Introduction To Choosing Lingerie For The Woman In His Life

The average man knows little or nothing about picking out lingerie, that is certainly understandable since it can be frustrating. Which kind of lingerie to buy, what size, what color - how is a man to know? Here is a little introduction to assist you when selecting lingerie for that special someone.

Here are a few things to consider before you go out. What does she like? Do not forget that you will not be dressing in this - she will and you should go out with the intent on getting something she is going to like. If she is not into lacey, minuscule, sheer teddies, chances are if you are going to buy that, she will not be in much of a mood to wear it and you may never see it. So keep what she likes in mind.

Unless you know, have a look at her nightgown/lingerie drawer before you leave. Pay attention to material type (cotton, silk, etc.), colors, and above all, size. She may be flattered if she wears a large and you get her a small, but if she wears a small and you buy her a large, you may find yourself in trouble. Stay clear of anything that says "control" on the label. Those items are designed to firm and flatten tummys and rears and she will probably not appreciate receiving them as a gift.

Something else to remember is if the store offers to wrap the lingerie let them. Pretty lingerie will look better in their wrapping than if you wrap it in the paper left over from your cousin's birthday. Presentation is part of the package with lingerie.

Additionally, should you be uncomfortable in the store, have a look at online retailers that sell lingerie. You can always start at Victoria's Secret, but most major retailers like Macys and Nordstroms also sell lingerie. Final note - remember to keep your receipt in the event it is the wrong style, size, or color.

Now, what kind of lingerie is out there? Just about anything you can think of! Take into account exactly what the occasion is. Is this to let her know you love her? If so, something crotchless or transparent probably will not send that message. But, if it is for Valentine's Day or your anniversary, something a little more risqu might be appreciated. Bras alone have numerous different kinds including push up, plunge, gel filled, padded, under wire, seamless, backless, strapless, open cup, and unpadded.

Should you be purchasing a bra and panty set, always check out what she has in her drawer ahead of time and definitely make note of the size - of both the bra and panties. Most places sell at least one pair of panties that match each bra, but some will sell several so you can mix and match. It helps to know the kind of panties she likes to wear too - thongs, briefs, or high cut bikini.

On the subject of sleepwear, it can be just as difficult. One kind of sleepwear is babydoll pajamas. They typically have very thin straps, a plunging V neckline, and are very short with matching panties. You will find most of these made out of silk or satin, materials that nearly always make a woman feel better about herself. But, if she feels her breasts are too big or too small, or thinks her stomach is too big, you should stay clear of babydoll pajamas.

There are slips and chemises. Similar to the babydoll pajamas, they are usually a little longer and a little better at hiding troublesome areas such as breasts, butt or stomach. They too are generally made out of silk or satin.

Gowns are full-length varieties of the babydoll. Most are see-through or lacey and can help put your woman in the mood. Babydolls, slips, chemises, and gowns may also come with a robe.

A pajama set may not sound too sexy, but if it is silky, and buttons up the front, it can make your woman feel very sexy, especially if she is a plus size (size 18 or larger). Boxer sets have grown popular as of late. The tops are tight, with thin straps and usually a V neckline, although there are boxer sets with normal t-shirt tops.

If you happen to be really hunting for lingerie to spice up your love life, visit Frederick's of Hollywood (available online). They have been selling sexy lingerie for over fifty years. They have an array of garter belts, bustiers, corsets, teddies (similar to the babydoll, but one piece), crotchless panties, and fishnet stockings - items that may not be available at many stores that sell lingerie.

What sort of lingerie you should get your love depends a lot on her self-confidence. Many big women love sexy little teddies, however many will shy away from them, for fear of revealing too much of themselves. Most stores sell lingerie in plus sizes, which are a little less revealing. If she is really athletic, a boxer set might be something she would like. Thin women will look good in anything, but especially teddies, corsets, and babydolls.

When searching for lingerie, try to take into consideration what she likes. If you buy something like the lingerie she already has and in colors you know she likes, it will probably make her happy. But, keep the receipt just in case!